"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A little advice to get a noob started

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I'd like to get out and try some rapid-fire practice in asking for a few numbers, but I've never actually made an approach before. I know, I know, guys, action trumps armchair theorizing! I want to get some real experience ASAP, but the lack of any kind of decent "script" has been holding me back.

What would you guys suggest for a nice short script to just get the number or the rejection quick? Like, say, "Hey I was running to meet a friend, but I think you're really hot. Could I get your number?" I'm just looking for a few decent scripts like that to try at the mall for practice. I'd like to get used to the inevitable rejections, as I know this is a numbers game.

More importantly even, how is a number typically given out? Do girls usually have something to write it on for you? Would they type it into your cell phone? Should I carry a notepad and pen in my pocket? I haven't been worried about the rejections so much as I've been concerned about getting a yes to the request, only to awkwardly have no way for the girl to actually give her number.

A big thanks goes out for any suggestions to get me started!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I don't think there's any 'magic potion' that can help you. But try to use your imagination and playfulness. I quickly brainstormed the following:

"Hi, you look cute. Can i have your digits?"

She will certainly say no and give you a really weird look. This is 'crash and burn' - id use this just to make sure i don't get any surprises. You will know the outcome and this will reduce your anxiety. Then follow up:

"Awwww, that's too bad.. We'd make such a great couple."

Now she will probably ask you why you think that or atleast give you a puzzled look. Your reply:

"Well, we're both kinda shy aren't we?"

Now youre teasing her. And this is the idea. I'd normaly say good luck but to you i wish good balls.
 
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