"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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A little advice for the short guys

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Go for the taller broads, theyre less strict about height than the midget sized women. Im 5'7 and ive dated two girls taller than (me both 5'8), a friend of mine is 5'5 and he is dating a 5'9 girl, its something Ive been observing. Im not saying tall girls prefer a shorter guys( because they dont!) but theyr not as picky. I also know my lady friend over 5'10 is dating someone 2 inches shorter. This doesnt go for every tall women though
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is very true. It may be they are uncomfortable with their own height,thinking they are too tall. If we show that we dont care how "short" we are then it could be a strenght in their eyes. It could be why it is easier to pull a "taller" chick over a "short" one,but who knows.
You could use C + F to make people laugh, "Yeah I may be short in height,but I make it up where it counts" and wink.
 

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You'd think this is bullsht, but it's kinda true. I'm 5'8, and I've noticed that the majority of girls who've blatantly hit on me (like in cafes or stores or whatever) are usually a bit taller than me. I always found it kinda strange.
 

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Just wanted to say I've also seen this. So there must be something to it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I see a bit of this as well. Often I see a girl who is 5'2 with a guy who is like 6'3. It is like the really short girls are so insecure with their height that they live vicariously through a tall boyfriend. The girls I see which are about 5'7 or taller do not seem to have boyfriends over 6 foot usually.

Also, girls who are a bit chubby tend to go for bigger guys. Again out of insecurity. Standing beside a big guy makes them look smaller.

Girls really are very insecure when you think about it. So don't feel bad if you feel you are rejected based on such grounds. The problem is their own pathetic insecurity and not you. :up:
 

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I've also seen this, especially on myself...:whistle: I'm 5'8 5'9 by the way.

I agree that tall/talller women/girls tend to be less worried about the guy being too short although they stillprefer taller guys. Nevertheless some rules apply:

- The girl shouldn't be too tall for the guy, like 4 and + inches taller. It would be too much, the difference would look too freakish.

- Most of the time the short/shorter guys who get with good looking tall women are those of Tom Cruise/Johnny Depp type: relatively short but with a very handsome face.
 

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Man being 5'7 sucks. I could never date a taller girl though-but thats just me.
 

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trans_am03 said:
Man being 5'7 sucks. I could never date a taller girl though-but thats just me.

Me too....Taller girls....no....i stick to smaller girls.



Sarge On!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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Majority of the girls i've been with are taller than me (I'm only 5'7", 5'8" on a good day) both in ONS and LTRS. Current girl is around 5'9"-5'10" it's even worse when she wears tall ass heels. But as i've seen some people say, we're all the same height when we're horizontal......or was it vertical?
 

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I have a friend of a friend who 'gained 2 inches' by doing some yoga ****.
 

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Man! am I glad somebody else actually noticed this... this is one of those observations I've had at the back of my head for a long time now that I just dismissed...

I'm also 5'7" roughly... maybe an inch taller. I've had a bunch of ideas about why it's always seemed that I could draw tall girls easier.. I used to think it was simply my fault... I've typically been one of those guys who likes the smaller girls... so I always figured with taller girls I've had the nonchalant "I don't care" attitude which somehow attracted them unwittingly. In addition to some of those things posted above all of which might be true... I think that maybe as a generality taller girls in the same way as ugly or chubby girls (etc) have to compensate with slightly more outgoing personality and less strict standards. Let's be honest, in my personal experience, I've heard more guys say stuff like, "I like those nice hot thin lil chicks that are 5'5" (ie Eva Longoria) but I don't often hear guys say, "I want a behemoth 6 foot WNBA girl" As a generality, tall girls might just have a slightly tougher time... and thus open themselves to dating all kinds of guys including the more attractive albeit shorter guys... and why not?
 

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maybe like 1% of the couples I see the girl is taller than the guy

I think these couples just stand out in your mind, you're not seeing alot of couples like this

either that or this is just one more thing claimed on here that I never see in real life

as long as you are taller than the girl it won't matter that much to most of them, only a small minority need a guy much taller than them
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Because it shows how easily manipulated they can be, which is usually their main path of success in our world or because men can pick out piece of sh'it trolls like you a mile away? If you really are a chick, then leave. You don't need this sh'it! If you are a guy, delete the username and go back to posting under your real name. We'll forgive you. :up: :up: :down: :up: :down:
What could be gained by pretending to be a girl if you are not one, it would be stupid, there isn't any reason to do that.:crazy:
 

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Princess Jo said:
What could be gained by pretending to be a girl if you are not one, it would be stupid, there isn't any reason to do that.:crazy:

Some people are really that sad. They purely want attention....

I have not made my judgement on whether your a troll or not yet. When i do...You will know as I will speak with the mods.

Could be Angelus.....Already on 19 posts in one day??

Hopefully you are a girl....It would be nice to have some female opinions to laugh at **cough** i mean discuss....

Sarge On!
 

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Tomatoes said:
Some people are really that sad. They purely want attention....

I have not made my judgement on whether your a troll or not yet. When i do...You will know as I will speak with the mods.

Could be Angelus.....Already on 19 posts in one day??

Hopefully you are a girl....It would be nice to have some female opinions to laugh at **cough** i mean discuss....

Sarge On!
Everyone thinks I am Angelus or some other person or a guy pretending to be a girl, or they think I'm an attention wh0re, they don't even know me, but they are very quick to judge, which is pathetic. :down:
 

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Princess Jo said:
Everyone thinks I am Angelus or some other person or a guy pretending to be a girl, or they think I'm an attention wh0re, they don't even know me, but they are very quick to judge, which is pathetic. :down:
Your fake, stop you mindless spam or i will rip your posts to shreds.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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