"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A list of ways to make friends

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volunteer at homeless shelters - church- hospitals- foodbanks. Make friends at a gym. Join a martial arts class. Join a Yoga class. Go to Starbucks or at a coffee shop in the evening- be a regular and be friends with the staff and baristas, take up skateboarding and befriend the young skaters there, play pick up basketball at the park, sign up for an art class at your local university, become a volunteer firefighter, get a dog and walk it at the park daily- you’ve gained a new friend, call up your old high school and elementary buddies on facebook messenger, join a morning biking group, sign up for a meditation class at the VA, plan a random bbq party at your house and go to your local university and pass out flyers and invite people there……etc……The list goes on, but in order to truely enjoy this, you must be happy and enjoy being content being alone….cause there’s nothing like sitting on your couch after a long day or the first thing in the morning…reading a good book or watching a movie…having a glass of wine or coffee…enjoying your peace and quiet.


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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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