"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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A lil cought up

FlyBri17

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Ok...tommorrow (Friday) I am supposed to be two places at the same time and I really wanna do both 1st option) hang out with some old friends that are really cool we plan to make a short movie after school of our day...see the movie Hero and go to dinner afterwards (they are all dudes but really cool, maybe I can pull girls while we hang out) neway 2nd option) Meet a girl and her friend at our 1st school football game (I dont really care about the season, im not really a sports guy i goto games 2 chill /w ppl) and chill with them then afterward me and a friend are goin to double date them to goto a dinner...Need help fast I just dont know man...I like all my options tomorrow just...man its hard
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PiHiPlaya

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chill with the old friend. Bros before Hoes.

Plus it will make you more of a rarity to the girl.
 

DJoneday

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If you can postpone the day with old friends, I'd go with that just because that's all you guys, there's nothing outside effecting the situation (the football game).

See if they can put it off till the next day, if not go with them. If they can put it off one day, you can do both.
 

FlyBri17

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I went with my friends and call the girl today and said "Im sorry I couldnt make the game" only to find out the game got rained out because of a tornado watch so I lucked out so greatly, and with friends that was a great night we brought a camera recorder and it was awesome we just did all types of funny crap but yeah..thanx for the input and......BY THE WAY monday we have off and I planned to take her out monday so we can "chat". :D
 
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