"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A "liberated" woman checking it out from a Man's perspective

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Peaks&Valleys

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MidnightCity said:
female solipsism in its rawest most unapologetic form.
Well, I interrupted it as the exact opposite of this^.

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being a man means you will go through hell, but in the end its much better than being a woman.
But I agree with you 100% on this^. :box:
 

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When chicks admit that other chicks are baths!t crazy, you know it's a fvcked up world out there.
 

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VladPatton said:
When chicks admit that other chicks are baths!t crazy, you know it's a fvcked up world out there.
I was wondering if someone was going to catch that. :up:

A woman goes online as Man, and she sees the truth!! The truth I tell ya.
 

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Peaks&Valleys said:
I was wondering if someone was going to catch that. :up:

A woman goes online as Man, and she sees the truth!! The truth I tell ya.

Yeah man, no joke. Any well grounded girl will readily admit how fvcked up today's girls can be with crazy entitlements, eskewed visions of self worth, and an uneducated point of view on feminism. All fueled by Twitter and Facebook. They live on that sh!t.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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That post on that blog sounds like it was written by a man. Maybe the sane thing is happening as with the dating profile.
 
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