"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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A lesson and question in one...

DJoneday

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Tonight i was at work and this girl who i've been working on a little invited me to her house this friday...

Apparently it WAS girls night out until tonight, now she wants me to bring a few friends and come. It'll be nine chicks to four guys, and these girls are all amazing. (It's the "hot popular" girls crowd from her school)

Just in the nick of time too, i come home to find an ex who's been trying to lead me on (i still had feelings for her, hard to let go but was moving on) started going out with another guy. Instead of making me sad (which it would have, had friday night not been set up), i was actually glad that i had an excuse in my mind for complete closure.

First - the lesson.
You can never get to the top. Even when people and situations seem like they're trying to pull you down, by just focussing at all times on making the moment enjoyable, and taking advantage of everything you can, life will throw you great situations. Sometimes when you need them the most (like mine tonight).

Now the question.
I'm going to be going to this girls house with two or three of my friends. I'm bringing a ****y guy that chicks think is "hot", and a stoner kid who also works with us. Both are really close friends and won't ****block or anything. I know how to act in one on one or two on one situations, does it change much in this scenerio? I'm good at entertaining crowds, i'm just not sure if we should go out or stay partying at the chicks house or what?

Help with any of this or any additional tips would be great.
Gracias.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Never underestimate the penls. Doesn't matter how close your buddies are, it's free game man and don't get upset if the ****y guy takes the hot chick you're after. My advice is don't be uptight what so ever and act like you don't care what happens- but say you'd rather chill at the house and play a drinking game for a little while to relax a bit (who know what'll happen once they're bouncin off the wall). Bring some extra booze, my advice is vodka and a fruity mix, and keep the music low while you play a drinking game or whatever so you can keep conversation going. Don't expect to get laid, when I do that I usually do end up getting laid- I guess it makes you carry yourself a certain way. Good luck wid it.
 

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i'm really not worried about who's getting who...all nine girls are HB's. I have more skill than anyone there so i'll still be taking my pick of the litter ;). Any more tips? this is happening tomorrow night and it'd be awesome if someone had some more input
 

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to me it sounds like there will be two ****y people at the get together
 

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I'm confident that i'll do the best because i've proven myself to be better with them with girls before. They all have the skills to hold a conversation and everything, but none of them are that great at taking it beyond that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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