"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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LiveYourDream said:
Curious, when EXACTLY did you TEXT the apology?

1. BEFORE you wrote: "Yeah not gonna text, never"
2. AFTER you wrote: "Yeah not gonna text, never"
3. Somewhere while typing the 7 words in between where you say, "I'll just feel like a fool.
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It was around 10 hours ago and obviously not right after posting here. Jeez we got a sherlock holmes here.:crackup:

I guess this sentnce is what confused you "which will definitely annoy her or it may not," Not sure what sohuld have been used instead of "Will"


As stated before, I've have wholeheartedly accepted the bitter truth that the Cinderella is in someone else's arm. And probably has been there for a long time. Hope that calms you down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I think it was the 'yeah not gonna text her' followed by 'just sent an apology text' which may have done it.
 
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sylvester the cat said:
I think it was the 'yeah not gonna text her' followed by 'just sent an apology text' which may have done it.
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There was no "Just" in my text.
 
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Everyone wants what they can't have.. So of course you can't stop thinking about her.

But seriously you are borderline stalker if what u say is true... I'd leave her alone. Your comments burned that bridge a long time ago...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Had a dream about her last night. So here we go again, the OCD thinking returns.
 
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Epimanes said:
But seriously you are borderline stalker if what u say is true...
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Borderline stalker?? This is full blown stalker stuff. I really don't know if he is trolling or not but I laughed my ass off reading this thread. Suspens, if you're being serious I think you need help and I'm sorry for laughing but holy sh*t this is absurd. If you are trolling, good job :up:
 
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No. Look, I barely post here. And when I do, I'm really desperate and I find this forum to be the best place to look for help and bro advice.

Sorry if I can't contribute anything helpful, but honestly this isn't a troll thread.

and FYI:http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love :)
 
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