how so?That seems to be a really popular website (39,000 members) as compared to 18,000 or so for bodybuilding.com
I just go to bodybuilding.com, but it's all really a waste of time.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.