"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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A hottie from class, met up, F-close then this...

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Ricky said:
Someone beat me to it, but not to pull a page out of Puerto Rico Players hand book but she is a HOR through and through.

Don't expect her to have honor.

That being said get her to go out for drinks again and bang her. I bet she's down with it and if not who cares she's a HOR.
Pull it out of his handbook kid - don't be shy with the truth - he is PuertoRican_Lover and he is always on the money knowing the mindset of hors!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sh*t...I came back to town...Rang her up...did the whole fun convo thing..She really does have a boyfriend....and he is in the f*ckin army. But she never did anything to discourage me...in fact when I asked her what her address is she gave it to me...

I went for a drive and went to the address she gave me and voila....she does live there...So far no fake numbers, no fake address either...Knock on wood.

I could see that she was a little hesitant and cold....but instead of supplicating to her I basically did storytelling with her and got her all fascinated....which was the same thing that happened before we shagged last time. But I didnt do anything this time....The timing and place was wrong.

But on my way out she asked what I was doing this week and I said maybe I have some security work to do....She asked me if I am still keen for coffee. To which I will fully take advantage of.

So what is your advice?

>Flake on her and turn the tables
>Forget about her because she has a soldier boyfriend
>Take it and take her! Create the opportunity. I will find a coffee shop near my place so I can take her home to watch the pics from my previous holiday. If we do it at her own place she might feel too guilty and freak out.
 
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