"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A helpful video about how AFCS work.

I love Hyori Lee

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Yeah, this video is in a completely foreign language. But it's a hilarious 11 minute clip. You don't have to understand the language to understand how this relates to AFCs around the world.

The story goes as this. It's about a new worker who's 2 hours late on her very first day of work. The boss is angry and he vows to punish her.

She comes in....and well.........

it's a prime example of how NOT to act when a hot girl is around you. Very, VERY funny.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=lH0x8g2fnuQ





Very funny.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I love Hyori Lee said:
it's a prime example of how NOT to act when a hot girl is around you.
I don't think you should act like guys in a Japanese comedy under any circumstancles, really :\.
 

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says the dude named i_love_hyori_lee
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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