"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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a guy on a wheelchair can teach you all something, just have gut to seduce them.

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this was written by a women on dontdatehimgirl.com this is the funniest website because all women do on it is complain about naturals who played them.
well, this guy has used a wheelchair since he was ten years old but still gets laid very often with different women. this shows me that if you guys can walk, then you can get laid also.

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This is just a letter of warning for any woman out there that may consider dating Sean. Just be very careful. Sean doesn't give up easily.. he will try to convince you that he is for real and will spend two years doing it! He is very patient and he is very persistant. If you do not live in his town and can't catch him lying, watch out.

Sean has an admitted sex addiction. I believe somewhere inside of him he wants to change, so I am not saying to not give him a chance. Just hold onto your heart because if he hasn't changed, you are in for one heck of a ride.

Sean grew up in a military family. He is an only child. He said he moved around a lot most of his life. He now lives in Hays, Kansas and works at Nex Tech. He has also lived in Texas, Oklahoma, and I can't remember where else. He was in a car accident around 10 or 11 years ago and is in a wheelchair but don't let that fool you, he doesn't let that stop him. If you have met him online, he may not tell you he is in a chair until two weeks before you meet him in person.

Sean shaves his head now and has somewhat of a Goatee. He has big steel blue eyes and a handsome smile.. He is a charmer.

Sean would not talk about his past. I asked him why he doesn't tell me about any happy childhood memories, he said that it was because he didn't have any. He also admitted that he did not have a good relationship with his mother and hadn't talked to her for ten years before his accident.

Sean has a son with an ex that he refuses to talk about. The mother would not let him see his son or have ANY contact. Sean's parents are allowed phone calls with the boy. Makes you wonder what he did to deserve that.

Sean has control issues as well, But is very subtle at it, you will notice that you will begin to alienate some of your closest friends because he says they are bad for you or your relationship. Sean also seemes to be a narcissist, from what I have noticed, he can feel for himself but can only pretend to feel for you. In my opinion this was a direct result of his upbringing. He said his mother was a control freak and he did not bond well with her. He is also very good actor and can bring on the crocodile tears with no problem. He has had years of practice.

When Sean wrote/spoke to me, it was very sensual and poetic. Always telling me he loved me "deeply and completely" He would call me Sunshine, Honey, Sexy, and Baby. He started out calling me Darling but I didn't like that too well because I noticed him calling other girls that.

He came to visit me in early December. During his visit I noticed he would not answer his cell phone, he would also go to the back bathroom and make phone calls to God knows who. Our very first night together while laying in his arms, he called me by his ex fiance's name. (said he was having a nightmare) A woman he was supposed to have broken up with two years prior. As it turns out, that is when they met! He stayed for three days then went on to visit his parents in San Diego. A few days later I became sicker than I had ever been in my life, I had a fever of 104, muscle aches and pains, a sore throat and could barely get up to use the restroom. I now believe it was probably Mono because his ex fiance was diagnosed with it. Anyway, I got a little better and he came back for another three days. Then he headed back to Hays on the 23rd.

Then on the 29th of Dec. I recieved an Instant message from a woman who claimed that he had been trying to get with her for two years and she said he told her he was single. He was not single, immediately after becoming engaged to his fiance he began contacting this other woman and then he began seeing me. After the other woman wrote me, there were a series of lies and games. Him changing my name to Andrew on his messenger list where he volunteered, (I found out later that he volunteered where his ex fiance worked!) She told me he must be obssessed with her He began going out and staying all night. I could also tell he was chatting with others because it would take him so long to answer back. Always with the excuse that he was working on something. Then I began to find him on several dating and sex sites by doing a regular google and yahoo search under the handle lioth527. He said he was on them before he met me and that he didn't visit them anymore. I wanted to believe him, I loved him, so I stayed.

Almost everyday I was with Sean I had that sinking feeling in my solar plexus that something wasn't right. I alienated most of my family and friends because he said they were bad for me/us. He said he was going to marry me. He talked with my children on the phone and refered to himself as Daddy.

Come to find out, not long after returning to Hays he began to see his ex fiance again. He failed to inform me of that little bit of information. He Just kept leading me on, making plans to move here by this September and marry me.

I couldn't handle anymore heartbreak so I broke up with him in March o6. Soon after, I decided to contact his ex. She asked me to tell her everything he promised me. I did and he gave her his passwords and she found out about five other women that he had sex with. One of them was his fifty to sixty year old caregiver who is married and a strict catholic.

It took me months to recover from the Mono "symptoms" I was completely drained of energy and always seemed to have a mild sore throat. Please, if you do date him, don't give your heart away. He devastated a lot of women and has admittedly been doing this since high school. His fiance told me that he never intended on moving here or marrying me, he just did it as a threat to her, to get her to go back with him is my guess. It was all a game to him. He told me that I was his soulmate, his other half.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sean has a son with an ex that he refuses to talk about. The mother would not let him see his son or have ANY contact. Sean's parents are allowed phone calls with the boy. Makes you wonder what he did to deserve that.
:rolleyes: mmm sinistar plot maybe? Dumb b!tch forgets about the thousands upon thousands of guys denied access to their kids simply because the mother wanted a sperm donour and a wallet. Theyre ALL EVIL, I work with 2 and I'm sure theyre plotting something bad when my backs turned.

So many things I could say about this post but I cant be assed.

I hope one day to make it onto dontdatehimgirl (if I'm not already). should be an aspiring goal for every man here ,I'm serious btw, .
 

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When I was a kid in early high school, I used to know this older guy in a wheelchair. I asked him one day, 'since you're a cripple, have you ever gotten laid?' (yeah, I know I wasn't a very sensitive boy). He told me "You know how I always disappear into the back of the shed every lunchtime? Well, it ain't to shine my wheels".

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Theyre ALL EVIL, I work with 2 and I'm sure theyre plotting something bad when my backs turned.
If all women are evil, why do you still get laid with them? That's like complaining Coke is evil then having 10 cans each night.
 

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It can take a guy half his life time to learn how to seduce the hottest babes, but once he has learnt how to do it, it becomes so easy.
The real key in seducing the hottest babes is persistence, if you keep trying to win them over after they have rejected you and told you that they are not attracted to or interested in you, 80% of the time you will get them.
If the girls did the same to the guys, it wouldn't work, this is why it takes guys so long to learn this trick.
If you listen to the hot babes talk amongst one another or even in groups where there are guys in attendence, they will even tell you how to seduce them, once you know what to listen for. :yes:
 

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KoalaKing said:
It can take a guy half his life time to learn how to seduce the hottest babes, but once he has learnt how to do it, it becomes so easy.
The real key in seducing the hottest babes is persistence, if you keep trying to win them over after they have rejected you and told you that they are not attracted to or interested in you, 80% of the time you will get them.
If the girls did the same to the guys, it wouldn't work, this is why it takes guys so long to learn this trick.
If you listen to the hot babes talk amongst one another or even in groups where there are guys in attendence, they will even tell you how to seduce them, once you know what to listen for. :yes:
Does that mean they actually like you though?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bvbidd said:
Does that mean they actually like you though?


who cares about being liked? a lot of us are in this game to get laid by beautiful women and not to be liked by them.
this is not junior HS. we are not looking to be liked but to get our wishes fulfilled.
 

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Then you won't need much more then a few bucks.
Kinda sad.

We aren't here for tips on how to get a hooker.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Then you won't need much more then a few bucks.
Kinda sad.

We aren't here for tips on how to get a hooker.
Seriously. The shallowness of some of the people on this forum really is kinda sad. They think being a true man means being an emotional robot. The lack of any desire whatsoever to form a deeper connection than "penis in vagina" with a woman comes off as an insecurity to me.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Does that mean they actually like you though?
That is a very good question as I don't really know the real answer to it, maybe there are heaps of hot babes going out with and fu-cking guys who they don't even like.
All that I know is that if a guy doesn't like a girl and he tells her to pi-ss off, he never seems to become allured by that girl at a later date, if she persists in her attempts to seduce him.
With girls this is so different, if a hot babe tells a guy who is trying to allure her to pi-ss off, if he persists in his trying to allure her after this, he often has success.
I don't know why this is the case, but I think that men like what they see through their eyes, but woman like this also, yet they also like to think that a guy has the confidence to keep on chasing her.
The thing that is very important to the hottest babes is how many other attractive woman desire to be with the guy, if heaps of pretty girls want to be with him then he doesn't need to have anything else going for him at all it seems. :up:
 

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librito said:
who cares about being liked? a lot of us are in this game to get laid by beautiful women and not to be liked by them.
this is not junior HS. we are not looking to be liked but to get our wishes fulfilled.
It's that attitude that precisely makes you look like you're in Junior HS.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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diplomatic_lies said:
If all women are evil, why do you still get laid with them? That's like complaining Coke is evil then having 10 cans each night.

Woops someone was a bit quick to get a reply in, reread it wanker. I'm talking about how the chick thinks something sinistar may be afoot because the guy isnt allowed to see his son. As in all those guys who are in the same boat must all be "evil".

Read properly next time, oh and while I remember you gotta drop the oneitis I'm constantly seeing in your posts for the United States. Obsession isnt healthy, go eat a vegemite sandwich open a tinny and watch the cricket, love the country your in you mental masterbating traitor.

librito said:
who cares about being liked? a lot of us are in this game to get laid by beautiful women and not to be liked by them.
this is not junior HS. we are not looking to be liked but to get our wishes fulfilled.
Testify.
 

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Woops someone was a bit quick to get a reply in, reread it wanker. I'm talking about how the chick thinks something sinistar may be afoot because the guy isnt allowed to see his son. As in all those guys who are in the same boat must all be "evil".
That doesn't change the question. If you hate women and complain about them so much, why do you want to get laid with them?
 

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That doesn't change the question. If you hate women and complain about them so much, why do you want to get laid with them?
Ok man, just read the replies properly next time before going off guns blazing because you think you saw something that wasnt there in your eagerness, save you and me both looking like tools and wasting bandwidth.
 

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Titman, your harsh words usually amuse me, but don't come the raw prawn about vegemite sandwiches, otherwise you may get into a blue.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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