A guy kissed my GF

[high nrg]

read:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45362

to get some background.

^stuff i didnt cover in that thread is that she isnt mad anymore and that she said it was stupid for her to even have been mad. when she told me this, she also said that she really loves me and that she thinks that "we" will last a long time.

ok, so today she calls me up crying and says that we need to talk.
a guy that she went out with 2 yrs ago has feelings for her again(he dumped her) and that guys friends have been telling him to kiss my GF.

so i guess he walks up to her today and she knows whats gonna happen so she says that she doesnt want him to kiss her and she walks away.

keep in mind this is what I was told by her, i trust it to be the truth, considering she was crying the entire conversation.

later he walks up to her again and says he promises he wont kiss her and that he just wants to chill or talk or sumthin. so she doesnt walk away. now this guys friends come over and start counting down and he leans in and kisses her.

im not sure exactly what happened after that. her friends are telling me that she pulled away and that she started yelling at him. i dont know what to believe right now. now my GF keeps telling me she loves me and that she wants to be with me forever.

im not that mad at her cuz ive heard from a bunch of ppl that she was like pushed against a wall and was made to kiss him.

i dont know what to think.

My GF has made it clear she didnt want to kiss him. and shes made it clear that shes really sorry.

ive thought about fighting this kid, but i dont think that'll help. cuz id probly really hurt him

i guess im asking what to do.

i need to hear it from someone else, i dont want my emotions to influence my decision.

thanks a lot

 

[Garbury]

well, fighting him won't really help the situation , id approach the guy and tell him exactly what i thought. Just don't get in a fight at school because u get really screwed for fighting at my school. Oh yeah, when girls say that stuff, about being with you forever, they are full of it. Remember that girls are scandalous and not to focus on what she says but how she acts and responds to getting kissed by him. hope i helped

 

[high nrg]

yeah, ive decided not to fight him unless he starts it.

and i cant really approach him cuz we go to different schools.
i go to an all guys school(its not that bad) and she goes to one of the co-ed private schools in the area.

i hadnt really been nervous about her going to a school with guys until now.

o, and i know that "forever" stuff is BS. im only 15, i dont want to be thinking about forever right now. im just concentrating on getting through high school

 

[FreeStyleZ]

Approach him and basically try to ***** him out. Tell him something like "if you dont leave my fvcking girlfriend alone you'll be eating through a straw for the rest of your life". If he doesnt resopnd to that, smile and walk away. If he does, let him initiate the fight so you can say you were defending yourself.

 

[Drowning]

I'd be at that dude's house with a baseball bat the minute I heard about that ****...

But I'm a very violent person...

 

[Skel]

I would give the girl the benefit of the doubt and believe her. I would also bash in the guys face, but thats just me.....

 

[BustedKnucks]

Originally posted by high nrg
read:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45362

to get some background.

^stuff i didnt cover in that thread is that she isnt mad anymore and that she said it was stupid for her to even have been mad. when she told me this, she also said that she really loves me and that she thinks that "we" will last a long time.

ok, so today she calls me up crying and says that we need to talk.
a guy that she went out with 2 yrs has feelings for her again(he dumped her) and that guys friends have been telling him to kiss my GF.

so i guess he walks up to her today and she knows whats gonna happen so she says that she doesnt want him to kiss her and she walks away.

keep in mind this is what I was told by her, i trust it to be the truth, considering she was crying the entire conversation.

later he walks up to her again and says he promises he wont kiss her and that he just wants to chill or talk or sumthin. so she doesnt walk away. now this guys friends come over and start counting down and he leans in and kisses her.

im not sure exactly what happened after that. her friends are telling me that she pulled away and that she started yelling at him. i dont know what to believe right now. now my GF keeps telling me she loves me and that she wants to be with me forever.

im not that mad at her cuz ive heard from a bunch of ppl that she was like pushed against a wall and was made to kiss him.

i dont know what to think.

My GF has made it clear she didnt want to kiss him. and shes made it clear that shes really sorry.

ive thought about fighting this kid, but i dont think that'll help. cuz id probly really hurt him

i guess im asking what to do.

i need to hear it from someone else, i dont want my emotions to influence my decision.

thanks a lot

Here's what you do. Take two of your friends who you know would throw down, and follow his bus or car home from school. When he gets out, beat his ass, and let him know you mean business.

 

[dingo23]

DUDE You have a desparate case here. Pimp your GF for the day, there is a BIG DEMAND for her.

Profit from it!

 

[MadTyteYo!]

dont fight over ne girl unless she is your wife or about to get married.

 

[high nrg]

im not gonna go out of my way to find him and fight him. if i meet him ill probly put him in the hospital.

i want to talk to him before i fight him tho. i want to get his # or sn for AIM and tell him if he so much as touches her again that i'll make sure he wont be able to kiss anybody anymore.

my GF says she wants to make it up to me. i dont know how she plans to, i dont really care what it is, but i think she does need to. im more mad now than i was before.

just to clear things up, he was her bf 2yrs ago, they didnt go out for 2 yrs

 

[California Love]

Im from the bay area also bro.


Stand up for you girl. If you have enough friends, fight him. You two only. Try not to feel too pressured, but its a good idea for you to win.

tips-

Land the first blow, preferably in the face or stomach. Both will disable him for a few seconds at least. Then get him on the ground. If hes lying on his back, one hand on his eyes, the other beating his face. If hes lying on his front, straddle his back, turn his head to the side, and hit it.

If you're on the ground, kick him before he can get close enough to smother you. Utilize your legs and DONT get them demobolized.


Most likely you won't hurt each other too much. Just keep punching and stay on the offensive.

 

[AFK Protector]

lmao....that is so funny. Yea, I say you bring your chick and tell them not to **** with her while she's there. Then you have a staff behind your back and whne 3 of them start coming you dent their skulls....kinda like Neo in Reloaded. So whoop some ass. Either that or just meet him one on one and talk through it calmly since some kids are ****ed up and might pull a knife on you or something.

 

[high nrg]

[/QUOTE]

Stand up for you girl. If you have enough friends, fight him. You two only. Try not to feel too pressured, but its a good idea for you to win.

i definetly have friends that would back me up, IF i needed it.

my girl doesnt want me to do anyhting tho. she said she doesnt want me fighting him. she wont even give me his # or sn or anything so i can talk to him.

tips-
Land the first blow, preferably in the face or stomach. Both will disable him for a few seconds at least. Then get him on the ground. If hes lying on his back, one hand on his eyes, the other beating his face. If hes lying on his front, straddle his back, turn his head to the side, and hit it.

lol, thanx for the tips.
i do know how to fight tho. im a pretty good fighter.
i wrestle too, not that that means sh*t in a fight, but if i see an opening for a move then ill take him out.

part of me is scared to fight him cuz i think id do something id regret. the last time i got in a fight i almost broke my friends neck and i gave him a concussion. he was down on his hands and knees and i jumped up and landed on the back of his head with me knees.

i do crazy sh*t when im mad.

thanx 4 the responses so far

 

[Porky]

Approach him and basically try to ***** him out. Tell him something like "if you dont leave my fvcking girlfriend alone you'll be eating through a straw for the rest of your life". If he doesnt resopnd to that, smile and walk away. If he does, let him initiate the fight so you can say you were defending yourself.

That would be starting the fight. After threatening to basically knock his teeth out he can hit you in self-defense. Self-defense = reasonable belief that you're in danger.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

Let it GO I know that sounds strange, but guess what, a kiss is just a kiss. If she didn't kiss him back, and even if she did, you can forgive her. If she loves you, what's the problem? People **** up. It happens. All that matters is the here and now. All of that is in the past. And don't fight this guy. Why would you? He's no threat to you, he already found out that she isn't interested, no reason for you to be jealous.

 

[Canadianpimpology]

Originally posted by UltimateScoundrel
Let it GO I know that sounds strange, but guess what, a kiss is just a kiss. If she didn't kiss him back, and even if she did, you can forgive her. If she loves you, what's the problem? People **** up. It happens. All that matters is the here and now. All of that is in the past. And don't fight this guy. Why would you? He's no threat to you, he already found out that she isn't interested, no reason for you to be jealous.

Probably the most sensible reply thus far. ^^^

 

[high nrg]

yeah, i just talked to her, and ive decided to let it go.

i still just want to tell him to stay away from her. just say it, dont threaten him or anything.

thanx guys

 

[LikRetsam]

You know, You're only thinking of this as if he didn't get the message. This guy is a ****ing retard. His friends around couting down? ****, grow up kids.

He got the message, he's got no ****ing chance with her.

 

[Kid-Icarus]

Pay me $700 Dollars

$200 for round drip ticket
$300 for a cheap rental car
$100 for a sharp mechete
$50 for a sharpening took kit so it cuts swiftly
$25 for mafia bags+shovels to hide the body
$25 dollars for Food and drinks

I'll bring you his head on a platter.
No one shall find the body.
lol

 

[BustedKnucks]

Sharp machete is like 6 dollars dawg