Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Klippymitch said:This girl called my phone and asks for Tyler. I told her no and she has the wrong number. Then she was all like "ah man""dang" "Shoot" and then she tells me my voice sounds cute. I told her "thank you" and "bye". Her voice did not sound cute.
But man that was weird. Has this ever happened to anyone else?
foomee said:If she calls again, pick up and say... hey that **** Tyler you're asking about, I know him and he's a total douche, so you wanna grab a bite sometime?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Better be careful with that unless you can scope her out from a distance somehow. I know some ug's that have a very sexy voice.foomee said:If she calls again, pick up and say... hey that **** Tyler you're asking about, I know him and he's a total douche, so you wanna grab a bite sometime?
azanon said:Better be careful with that unless you can scope her out from a distance somehow. I know some ug's that have a very sexy voice.
Every see the movie "Friday"? Girl that supposed to look like Janet Jackson shows up and is all nasty. He goes "aweee helll naw!"
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.