"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A guy getting used sexually 100% of the time

nan3109

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I met a girl outside my new dorm yesterday, she invites me to go to a house party with her and her friends.. we get there and make out and she grabs me down below then like 10 mins later after i go off shes up against the wall making out with another guy and now today she asked me to go watch a movie with her and friends and THAT guy is in there cuddling with her on the bed, wtf!

And this hasn't happened once. I've had sex with about 50-60 girls and never dated one for awhile at first. Its always within a couple hours of meeting them. Do guys get 'used' or am I 'using them'? Sometimes I can't tell.

I want a girlfriend but I'm too sexually 'HIGH' after having soo many random girls that when I find one I would date I can't keep it going without making a move physically or maintaining it with her interest even though I do everything that this DJ board teaches to a T which is all good for random sex but not great for a relationship.

Any Ideas? I'm REALLY serious about this, not bragging, and seriously looking for help!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Your her plaything son! showing you no respect at all. If you still wanna pursue her used up ass knowing that she's only good for p*ssy, then do so! But if you're looking for a relationship, move on. Just remember you don't want to perform this scandelous behavior she exhibited onto you to someone else. If you're so damn horny man (like the rest of us), go jerk off fool! That's why we have porn ;)

Sometimes you just can't get p*ssy all the time. And I rather have a gf instead of having hoe ass all the time.
 

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i cant recall a single thing this guy ever said that didnt make me want to hit him.
 

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Originally posted by nan3109

I want a girlfriend but I'm too sexually 'HIGH' after having soo many random girls that when I find one I would date I can't keep it going without making a move physically or maintaining it with her interest even though I do everything that this DJ board teaches to a T which is all good for random sex but not great for a relationship.

Any Ideas? I'm REALLY serious about this, not bragging, and seriously looking for help!!!
You need to learn self control. When I say self control I mean control to do the things that you truly want to. YOur physical actions arent in synch with you spirit. Most people are like this until they start to seek learning to master themselves. Mastering yourself means only doing the things that you (your essence/soul) reallys wants to do. How do you know the difference? Anything that you soul really wants will make you happy when its over its a good thing to reflect on whereas any thing it doesnt really want to do will bring you guilt when its done. Guilt is caused when your true self or you essence isnt congruent with you physical self (thats why you can lose your temper and do/say things you regret the very second you do or say them).
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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50-60 different girls? And you're 19? You're going to end up with, "well what the hell is that down there? I've never seen that before!"
 
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