"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A guy getting used sexually 100% of the time

nan3109

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I met a girl outside my new dorm yesterday, she invites me to go to a house party with her and her friends.. we get there and make out and she grabs me down below then like 10 mins later after i go off shes up against the wall making out with another guy and now today she asked me to go watch a movie with her and friends and THAT guy is in there cuddling with her on the bed, wtf!

And this hasn't happened once. I've had sex with about 50-60 girls and never dated one for awhile at first. Its always within a couple hours of meeting them. Do guys get 'used' or am I 'using them'? Sometimes I can't tell.

I want a girlfriend but I'm too sexually 'HIGH' after having soo many random girls that when I find one I would date I can't keep it going without making a move physically or maintaining it with her interest even though I do everything that this DJ board teaches to a T which is all good for random sex but not great for a relationship.

Any Ideas? I'm REALLY serious about this, not bragging, and seriously looking for help!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Your her plaything son! showing you no respect at all. If you still wanna pursue her used up ass knowing that she's only good for p*ssy, then do so! But if you're looking for a relationship, move on. Just remember you don't want to perform this scandelous behavior she exhibited onto you to someone else. If you're so damn horny man (like the rest of us), go jerk off fool! That's why we have porn ;)

Sometimes you just can't get p*ssy all the time. And I rather have a gf instead of having hoe ass all the time.
 

AMF

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i cant recall a single thing this guy ever said that didnt make me want to hit him.
 

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Originally posted by nan3109

I want a girlfriend but I'm too sexually 'HIGH' after having soo many random girls that when I find one I would date I can't keep it going without making a move physically or maintaining it with her interest even though I do everything that this DJ board teaches to a T which is all good for random sex but not great for a relationship.

Any Ideas? I'm REALLY serious about this, not bragging, and seriously looking for help!!!
You need to learn self control. When I say self control I mean control to do the things that you truly want to. YOur physical actions arent in synch with you spirit. Most people are like this until they start to seek learning to master themselves. Mastering yourself means only doing the things that you (your essence/soul) reallys wants to do. How do you know the difference? Anything that you soul really wants will make you happy when its over its a good thing to reflect on whereas any thing it doesnt really want to do will bring you guilt when its done. Guilt is caused when your true self or you essence isnt congruent with you physical self (thats why you can lose your temper and do/say things you regret the very second you do or say them).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dingus

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50-60 different girls? And you're 19? You're going to end up with, "well what the hell is that down there? I've never seen that before!"
 
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