A guy friend sleeping in her bed????

[El' Waynos]

Ok,

I have been seeing this girl for 3 weeks, we are not bf/gf but we sleep together and dont see anyone else..

She has been friends with this guy for 6 years, he is a family friend etc.. I just heard that he stays over sometimes IN HER BED.

I acted shocked and just said..."we all make our own decisions"

she doesnt have a history with him... but man, If I was in the same bed as her and 'just friends' I would still find an oppertunity to creep..


so whats the deal don's...... do I move to the next girl or put up with this..

It makes me feel a bit confused if this is the girl for me, my ideal woman wouldnt bust this ****..

But she is a 9.5/10 and she loves my ****!!

 

[James Bondage]

Wow.

This girl is a ho, man.

I would avoid a serious relationship at all costs - sex, but nothing emotional.

 

[UK-Guru]

i have a female friend who i have been mates with for 10 years (no history), and we are pretty close and one night i ended up at her place a little drunk and stayed with her in her bed. didnt think nothing of it and neither did she.

i did have a girlfriend at the time, and didnt mention it to her cos i knew she would have dont her nut.

But if there just mates like me and my friend then i dont think it is a problem.

although i would find it diffucult if it was the other way around and my girlfriend had a guy friend sleep in her bed.

 

[Weak_Game]

shes not your girlfriend... so she can do as she please, as well as can you

IF she was... and she continued with this behavior i would end the relationship so fast her head would spin

start spinning some plates keep your options open

have some females friends sleep over in your bed and do not **** them, see how she reacts. i have had females sleep in my bed and didnt make moves just good friends. but if i was in a relationship as i am now, that stopped the seconed i became commited to one person

 

[thederekeffect1]

Dude, no. Don't go for her.

I'm sure we can all tell you about an experience or two where we slept in the opposite sex's bed and did nothing. Maybe they're even childhood friends and don't think anything of it. Even if that's the case, they still have to realize how it looks to other people.

 

[Weak_Game]

Dude, no. Don't go for her.

I'm sure we can all tell you about an experience or two where we slept in the opposite sex's bed and did nothing. Maybe they're even childhood friends and don't think anything of it. Even if that's the case, they still have to realize how it looks to other people.

i agree but..

Other then respect for sleeping with each other this girl has no title. Neither does he. There is no commitment. Just a silent acknowledgment of not sleeping with anyone else. If your relationship with her starts to progress it should be brought up. You are not comfortable with that. He should sleep in another room on the floor (even though we know it wont happen). If there is commitment do not stand for any crap like that. Put your foot down and put it down hard. I wanna hear a thud.