Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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check out Tony Robbin's Personal Power series. I went through his Personal Power 2 which is a few years old and it takes a month to do. all i can say was it was worth every penny and so much mores.

his motivational speaking is unbelievable. I went through the entire program and i have experienced massive resluts. I'd say that has done more for me and my confidence then all the information on this site combined. Going through the program helped develope a will to change. And now the wil is sooooo strong i'll almost do anything to change it (like breaking my fears away) 3 months ago i could not even go up to a stranger and talk to them. I was afraid to call my friends to even talk. It took me 3 months just to have to courage to go up and talk to this one girl (and i went total afc on her and lost her in the end even though initally i was doing it right since she had extremely high interest) I never had a social life or anything but now that is changing drastically. And especially talking to chicks. My fears were so strong b4 i would shake just making a phone call. But with this program and the information on this site it helped a lot! I dont have the inital fear of approach anymore. I still have some other fears (the more of if i get to know her and date her she pulls the ljbf) but i dont have to deal with that right now so its not a big deal. When it comes time to face those fears, i'll know i'll break through.

even though its a lotta mone
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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i'd be happy to answer any questions for you guys on his program and why i find it worth every penny. (why i though it was good even though it was kinda cheesy...)
 

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"I went through the entire program and i have experienced massive resluts. "

I like sluts, but am interested in these massive resluts!

Just kidding.

I do have to agree Tony Robbins stuff is really good. I need to listen to it again!
 

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same, its been a while. most ppl think its a rip off but you get alot (15 cds , tapes books) and his information is insightful and makes sense. YOu can use it the very first day in the program.
 

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Tony Robbins Hungry....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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it sure helps with confidence that for sure. Thats one of the maind focus's in the program, confidence is the key. Its bascially a number of excersizes to feel soooooo much pain that is more painful to not act then act. thats what i did and it works.
 

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Tony Robbins is AWESOME! He has completely changed my attitude towards everything in life. I havn't listened to his PP2 series yet, but plan to in the future.

I have Get the Edge, Lessons in Mastery and Live with Passion! All great programs. I also understand now that I wasn't able to apply anything I learned from this site before... because my attitude sucked. I think attitude is one of the most important things. Before I had a bad attitude towards everything, negative beliefs, uncontrollable emotions, etc...

Everything he teaches you is far more important and vital than anything you will learn from this website.

It's an awesome feeling to wake up every morning grateful for everything you have and excited to tackle the day!

Anyways, overall Tony Robbins is an awesome influence and teaches great methods/techniques to really produce results in your life.
 

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Tony Robbins has a reputation for one of the best motivational speakers of this day and age.

I think his courses, however, are a bit pricy for the average customer.
 

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i have quite a bit of his stuff downloaded, but i cant get myself to find interest in anything he says really...

-_-
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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