"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A Great Pickup Technique

Ratisson

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I think i have come up with a quick and easy way to pickup girls. i have come up with a backup plan for all those situations in pickup where you dont feel confident in the approach (ie: when u dont think u can carry a convo), or when there is little time for the approach, or when it is a tough situation to approach (ie. college lecture class).

I have come up with a backup plan for situations like these. Here's what u do. You see the girl, and you want her but ur afraid of the approach. The first thing u want to do is make eye contact with her and see if she's you looking at her. If she looks back at u then smile and calmly go up to her, without even saying a word to her yet, just keep grining at her. Go up to her like your whispering something in her ear, get your face real close to hers (6-12 inches), but maintain eye contact and continue smiling as you say this: "So when are we going on our date?". And you just look at her and smile and wait for her response.

This is a great way of trying to pickup a girl in situations that u feel uncomfortable with when picking up. It is the most direct of approaches where you just straight away just go for the gold. This is a tricky pickup though because u are trying to pick the girl up just by looks alone. There is no rapport building on this one, that is why when you do this u must look and smell ur best.

Just think of all the times when u have missed out on opportunities to fvck hot girls, but u chickened out for some reason or another. This approach takes all of 10 seconds. It could be used on any hottie at any time. Like i said before, this approach works on looks alone. If she finds you physically attractive then it will work. So next time u see a girl u like and u dont know what to do, or ur not on top of ur game but u know u need to do something about the situation, just try this quick approach and see if it works. Its better than just freezing up and letting her walk out on ur life.

im definitely tying this on the next hot girl i see.
peace,
ratisson.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oh ya, and u gotta be as ****y/confident as hell when u say the line. Just smile at her with a ****y grin on ur face.
 

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Ratisson said:
oh ya, and u gotta be as ****y/confident as hell when u say the line. Just smile at her with a ****y grin on ur face.
What if she stares at you for a second, but looks away the next moment ?

Wont that hurt your ego (even a lil bit) because u have tried hard to look your best and smile with all your confidence...

Or am I just being too negative ?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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God_of_getting_layed

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Ratisson said:
I think i have come up with a quick and easy way to pickup girls. i have come up with a backup plan for all those situations in pickup where you dont feel confident in the approach (ie: when u dont think u can carry a convo), or when there is little time for the approach, or when it is a tough situation to approach (ie. college lecture class).

I have come up with a backup plan for situations like these. Here's what u do. You see the girl, and you want her but ur afraid of the approach. The first thing u want to do is make eye contact with her and see if she's you looking at her. If she looks back at u then smile and calmly go up to her, without even saying a word to her yet, just keep grining at her. Go up to her like your whispering something in her ear, get your face real close to hers (6-12 inches), but maintain eye contact and continue smiling as you say this: "So when are we going on our date?". And you just look at her and smile and wait for her response.

This is a great way of trying to pickup a girl in situations that u feel uncomfortable with when picking up. It is the most direct of approaches where you just straight away just go for the gold. This is a tricky pickup though because u are trying to pick the girl up just by looks alone. There is no rapport building on this one, that is why when you do this u must look and smell ur best.

Just think of all the times when u have missed out on opportunities to fvck hot girls, but u chickened out for some reason or another. This approach takes all of 10 seconds. It could be used on any hottie at any time. Like i said before, this approach works on looks alone. If she finds you physically attractive then it will work. So next time u see a girl u like and u dont know what to do, or ur not on top of ur game but u know u need to do something about the situation, just try this quick approach and see if it works. Its better than just freezing up and letting her walk out on ur life.

im definitely tying this on the next hot girl i see.
peace,
ratisson.
this is definitely a pick up strategy that only a key board jockey would post.

Guys, this guy is clearly just a key board jockey, dont listen to him.
 

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Play the Game said:
Or... When are you buying me lunch? lol
You might as well ask how she likes her eggs in the morning if you're going down that road :up:

As for the technique.. i don't know. If it works for you then that's cool, though i think would have quite a high failure rate for most people. Especially if it's for people who don't have much confidence.

Then again i enjoy building up rapport..
 

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Ratisson said:
I think i have come up with a quick and easy way to pickup girls. i have come up with a backup plan for all those situations in pickup where you dont feel confident in the approach (ie: when u dont think u can carry a convo), or when there is little time for the approach, or when it is a tough situation to approach (ie. college lecture class).

I have come up with a backup plan for situations like these. Here's what u do. You see the girl, and you want her but ur afraid of the approach. The first thing u want to do is make eye contact with her and see if she's you looking at her. If she looks back at u then smile and calmly go up to her, without even saying a word to her yet, just keep grining at her. Go up to her like your whispering something in her ear, get your face real close to hers (6-12 inches), but maintain eye contact and continue smiling as you say this: "So when are we going on our date?". And you just look at her and smile and wait for her response.

This is a great way of trying to pickup a girl in situations that u feel uncomfortable with when picking up. It is the most direct of approaches where you just straight away just go for the gold. This is a tricky pickup though because u are trying to pick the girl up just by looks alone. There is no rapport building on this one, that is why when you do this u must look and smell ur best.

Just think of all the times when u have missed out on opportunities to fvck hot girls, but u chickened out for some reason or another. This approach takes all of 10 seconds. It could be used on any hottie at any time. Like i said before, this approach works on looks alone. If she finds you physically attractive then it will work. So next time u see a girl u like and u dont know what to do, or ur not on top of ur game but u know u need to do something about the situation, just try this quick approach and see if it works. Its better than just freezing up and letting her walk out on ur life.

im definitely tying this on the next hot girl i see.
peace,
ratisson.
You're officially retarded.
 

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This technique will work much better if you can convey passive value, DHVing yourself without coming into contact with her.

Eg. Being well groomed, having a decent body, the friends you have with you, your body language, your energy levels etc...
 
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