"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a great idea

check_mate_kid_uk

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next time you want to talk to a girl you like, walk up from behind and put your arms round her, she will love oyu for it because it shows you are a man it shows you can have what you want.

do you seriously belive this? well if you said no thats a good start because i just made that up!

Give me 1 reason why everything on the site is correct, seriosuly do you think half of it is any use at all, the answer is no! Every one seems to take everything any 1 says as golden advice...aslong as the guy has a higher post count then you.

Why should they know it, you are not a robot and you should not be spoon fed, you have to pick out the good bits yourself, yet every 1 seems to take it all as golden advice, you have to filter it out.

a diamond mine is mostly just durt, usless durt yet inside that dirt are precious stones, you must think of the site like that otherwise you will be using bad advice

if you cant do that, then oyu must stick to the bible where the selected matireal is mostly good, so you should stick on track.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lets all use our common sense when we read what others advice...
some of us joke just a tad:)
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
next time you want to talk to a girl you like, walk up from behind and put your arms round her, she will love oyu for it because it shows you are a man it shows you can have what you want..
I think I could pull that off :D I normaly jus put 1 hand on their shoulder.
 
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