"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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A great idea, but can I pull it off

kegger

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Ok, here is this idea, we will see what you guys think, maybe I can grow the balls to get it done. Ok, here in town we have a huge haunted house, pretty big deal. My 90 day suspension is up on my liecense come the 29, what if I ask this chick to go there with me. I think it will help, becuase I will be there to confort her when she gets scared, these things don't scare me. Only two things scare me , death and women. But how should I ask this girl before it is time to go and how should I do it. Thnx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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floydtheater07

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You could always just chill with her, then suggest going there, like it was spontaneous.
 

kev me723

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neither should really scare you. I kno what'll happen when I die, and women really aren't that scary at all, and they are usually more scared of you anyway
 

kegger

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Slight problem, talking to this girl and found out she doesn't like halloween or haunted houses.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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