"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A great idea, but can I pull it off

kegger

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Ok, here is this idea, we will see what you guys think, maybe I can grow the balls to get it done. Ok, here in town we have a huge haunted house, pretty big deal. My 90 day suspension is up on my liecense come the 29, what if I ask this chick to go there with me. I think it will help, becuase I will be there to confort her when she gets scared, these things don't scare me. Only two things scare me , death and women. But how should I ask this girl before it is time to go and how should I do it. Thnx
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You could always just chill with her, then suggest going there, like it was spontaneous.
 

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neither should really scare you. I kno what'll happen when I die, and women really aren't that scary at all, and they are usually more scared of you anyway
 

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Slight problem, talking to this girl and found out she doesn't like halloween or haunted houses.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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