"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A grain of salt.

SamTheHobit

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To everyone on here Should the advice you give here be taken and applied all of the time, and does it make us less of a don Juan if we want to go about using our own methods of seduction and go against the so called DJ bible methods. just wondering because it seems like everyone here lives by the DJ bible.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wolfgang D

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SamTheHobit said:
To everyone on here Should the advice you give here be taken and applied all of the time, and does it make us less of a don Juan if we want to go about using our own methods of seduction and go against the so called DJ bible methods. just wondering because it seems like everyone here lives by the DJ bible.
Seems like almost nobody has read it in fact.

There are lots of methods here. What's your own methods of seduction?
 

DonJuanit0

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I don't think Djism is a certain way of action rather than a way of leaving and how to confront some things in your life! If I remember correctly (it's been a long time) the bible doesn't only speak about seduction!

Anyway, of course the answer is no! Trust me that it doesn't seem that everyone here lives by the DJ bible! Everyone here is trying to understand and make it part of their lives maybe, but not living by it! Which advices someone might follow and which not is his own decision and it doesn't make him less of a Dj! Since there are different cultures, religions and most likely different women, there will be many ways of seduction which may not be found in the bible!
 
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