“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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A good wingman

Paradox

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Sometimes when you go to a club, bar, lounge..ect, you will find women in groups. Many times they travel together and give each other support. This is why you need support also.

Wingman is a slang term which refers to a friend or buddy pick up artist who gives you support. Your wingman should help you spot potential girls, run interference, distract c**k blockers (male & female), provide a back up for your stories, helps with social proof, provides info on the girls and keeps your spirits up if you get rejected.

In order to work together you have to establish rules with your wingman. Some pick up artists just work well together because they know what to do from experience. If you want to approach a group of girls with your wingman you guys should decide which girl each of you are going to target. That will keep you guys from bumping heads. Also get your stories straight. Don't surprise your wingman by telling a girl some wild tale about your job, car, ect without telling your wingman first. She might try to verify your story. If she takes your wingman by surprise you lose major points.

The job of a wingman is just what the name implies. He stays by your side and provides support. Your wingman should be your buddy and you guys should work together as a team.

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[This message has been edited by Paradox (edited 06-17-2001).]
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Great post paradox. A very good idea and something I have to try. I wonder if this would work better with a female wingman? Anyone please include your experiences with wingman, female or male.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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yes, but what if all your friends are complete AFC's?

What then?
 

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Very true.

Also get your stories straight. Don't surprise your wingman by telling a girl some wild tale about your job, car, ect without telling your wingman first. She might try to verify your story. If she takes your wingman by surprise you lose major points.
This is probably the most important thing to remember.
 
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