"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a good way to regain that confidence

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theory of knowledge

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ever notice how you can feel all alpha and confident one day and kinda insecure the next day? well this happens to me once in a while, last week i was chilling with some of my friends, didnt really feel like talking, so i just sat in the back and listened, then they started gossiping about another of my friends, which i couldn't stand after a while, so i stood up and said, "okay guys, lets cut the gossip, i wouldn't want anyone to talk about any of us here this way, and i'm sure you feel the same." afterwards, my confidence/charisma just soared through the roof, i tried this again this week, and the same results.

anyways, the moral of the story is to always stand up for something/someone you believe, in a nice way too, because sooner or later, stuff like gossip is gonna come up, and if you put an end to it, not only will others respect you, but also you will yourself.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Good post! It's what being a man is all about. Respect himself and others. Free to take reign when feeling he should and having others respect that.

It's what leaders are made of.
 
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...you could just walk up to a random chick and start talking.
 
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