It's every guy's nightmare; you're hooking up with a hot chick, and you can't get it up. You're mortified, she's unsatisfied, and you worry about it endlessly.
Obviously, alot of that stuff is mental, so some of what you have to do is 'relax' and 'not worry' - easier said than done, I know.
BUT; if you are still able to get erections but have trouble keeping them when you actually have sex, here's a trick that worked for me first when I lost my virignity and then recently when I had an attack of the old PA:
Let her be on top. It's easier for you, it's less awkward, she'll probably have an easier time angling it in so there's less of that phases between getting the condom on and actually doing it (assuming you use a condom).
If she doesn't want to be on top the whole time, let her be there for a few minutes to raise your confidence (and you c0ck) and then just switch.
Obviously, alot of that stuff is mental, so some of what you have to do is 'relax' and 'not worry' - easier said than done, I know.
BUT; if you are still able to get erections but have trouble keeping them when you actually have sex, here's a trick that worked for me first when I lost my virignity and then recently when I had an attack of the old PA:
Let her be on top. It's easier for you, it's less awkward, she'll probably have an easier time angling it in so there's less of that phases between getting the condom on and actually doing it (assuming you use a condom).
If she doesn't want to be on top the whole time, let her be there for a few minutes to raise your confidence (and you c0ck) and then just switch.
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