I came across this interesting tip, and i just thought that it is a very valid tip and that everyone should be aware of this... so here it is.... 
** The Paradox of Desire **
Desire often creates paradoxical effects.
The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it
eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object
of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong - it
makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you
seem weak, unworthy, pathetic.
You need to turn your back on what you want, show your contempt and
disdain. This is the kind of powerful response that will drive your
targets crazy. They will respond with a desire of their own, which is
simply to have an effect on you - perhaps to possess you.
If choosing to ignore enhances your power, it follows that the
opposite approach - commitment and engagement - often weakens you.
Your best approach in attracting the girl you desire is to show her
what you have to offer first. (For example, show her you're a fun guy
to be with, honest, intelligent, confident, etc.)
In other words show her some attention at first. Then withdraw this
attention from her, so as to confuse her. Ignoring her will make you
appear more worthy, more powerful.
The reason for giving her that initial attention is so that she is
aware of what she is missing out on. Of what she has lost.
If you start off right away by ignoring her, it will have very little
effect on her because she won't be aware of what she has lost.
It's true what they say: "You don't know what you have until you have
it no longer."
Robert Jordon
So have any of you done this before? Or had similar experiances before?
I hope this helps.
Laterz...
** The Paradox of Desire **
Desire often creates paradoxical effects.
The more you want something, the more you chase after it, the more it
eludes you. The more interest you show, the more you repel the object
of your desire. This is because your interest is too strong - it
makes people awkward, even fearful. Uncontrollable desire makes you
seem weak, unworthy, pathetic.
You need to turn your back on what you want, show your contempt and
disdain. This is the kind of powerful response that will drive your
targets crazy. They will respond with a desire of their own, which is
simply to have an effect on you - perhaps to possess you.
If choosing to ignore enhances your power, it follows that the
opposite approach - commitment and engagement - often weakens you.
Your best approach in attracting the girl you desire is to show her
what you have to offer first. (For example, show her you're a fun guy
to be with, honest, intelligent, confident, etc.)
In other words show her some attention at first. Then withdraw this
attention from her, so as to confuse her. Ignoring her will make you
appear more worthy, more powerful.
The reason for giving her that initial attention is so that she is
aware of what she is missing out on. Of what she has lost.
If you start off right away by ignoring her, it will have very little
effect on her because she won't be aware of what she has lost.
It's true what they say: "You don't know what you have until you have
it no longer."
Robert Jordon
So have any of you done this before? Or had similar experiances before?
I hope this helps.
Laterz...
