A good situation? dating coworkers

[paraguayandj]

Ok I got myself into some deep shyt, I've been flirting with almost all of my coworkers lately, applying my DJ knowledge and I must say that it works pretty well. Anyways, I got this girl whose a 7.5 and really into me and this 8 who is kinda flirty but I know she likes me. The problem is that the 8 is pretty hot but highly unstable, the 7.5 is stable but really busy for anything. So, now im in a dilema. These two girls are competing for my attention at work all the time. The problem is that I don't know whether I should go for one of them or don't go for either one. Now, I was looking for any threads that talked about dating coworkers but i couldn't find anything. If anybody knows where those threads are hiding please tell me or give me some insight on this situation :crazy:


Basically what I want to know is whether I should give them a sign that im not interested in either one of them or should I go with one of them and see what happens, or I should propose a threesome Actually i seriously doubt that they'll accept that but whatever.

 

[john_1234]

career position? no

job? yes

 

[paraguayandj]

Anything else anybody wants to add to it?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Depends, is this a career job or just a part time job that you don't really give a fuvk about?? If its a career job then I'm sure you already know that its ALWAYS a bad idea to dip your pen in the company ink. However if this is just a part time job you have while your going through school then I'd say go for it. However I'd only bang them, not date them seriously. You already said the HB8 is unstable and that's always bad news, while the 7.5 seems to be very busy. Trust me, I've been in that situation before and it always better to be the guy who hooks up with the girls from work, rather than the guy who's dating this girl at his work.

If you two break-up it will get ugly, not to mention that you'll most likely have no chance with any other girls there because they won't want to get involved in the drama etc. Just keep seducing until you hook up, but don't expect anything else.




PIMP

 

[paraguayandj]

is a part time job and im in college so is just to have fun nuthin serious

 

[Ever onward]

What an original screen name

 

[DJDamage]

is a part time job and im in college so is just to have fun nuthin serious

In that case have your fun but you are already messing up. You cannot commit to any of those girls because that will be foolish without dating them. However if you try to date both of them eventually one will find out about the other and then it is all going to blow up in your face (not in a good kind of way).

Date several girls but never date them from the same location. I would pick the 7.5 and stick with her, even if she is really buzy then you can still sarge other women and keep her on the side. Stay away from unstable chicks.