"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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A good night's sleep....

Lexington

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It's one of the most useful and undervalued keys to being successful. You might be wondering how sleeping well at night will help you pick up chicks. Remember, this board isn't only about routines, techniques etc. to pick up girls, it's about improving ourselves and becoming better men.

That being said, getting a good night's sleep will improve your love life and just about every aspect of your life. When we are well rested, we remember things better (memory consolidation), we look better (more time for the body to carry out repair functions) and we are more alert and productive when we are awake.

I've come to realize only recently how much of a difference it can make. As a grad student, I have quite a busy schedule and a ton of work/studying to keep up with. I used to pull late nighters all the time only to find that my grades showed little improvement.

Now that I make sure to get 7-8 hours of sleep every night, I find that I think clearer and the course material seems a lot easier. I'm in a good mood and I'm seldom cranky because I'm well rested. Also, it was always hard for me get bigger because I'm a hard gainer. Now that I'm better rested, I've packed on a lot more weight too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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