"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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A good kiss tease?

MikeBrown30

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Came across this gif somewhere, not sure what movie it's from:

http://x54.xanga.com/e22f805b73d33278801982/m222090124.gif

I think it could be a good little tease to show a bit of higher value, and ramp up the sexual tension a touch and build anticipation. On the flip side, she could lose interest, but I think it would only happen if you kept doing it to her, or if you were to wait too long to actually kiss her. This is assuming you have built rapport/attraction with her.

Not looking for an deep analysis, just thought it would be a fun little tease to get that hamster in her head spinning.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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samuel22

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I've done this a few times. usually I do the move in for the kiss and make it obvious, but then pull out at the last second and move my face past hers. Works best from a side-ish angle, and you have to be careful to not come off as a coward. Eye contact and a ****y smirk will be key.
 

PapiChulo

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good stuff. One could pull it off in places not ideal for first kisses.
 

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If you do it and it works, then she'll be leaning in for the kiss, closing her eyes and opening her mouth and tilting her head and that stuff. If you don't go through with it but maintain your composure in a teasing sort of way, then you've pretty much exposed her and you have control over everything. She'll be wondering about the kiss that could have been until she actually gets it
 
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