"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A good job to get for a high schooler.

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im looking to get a job soon. but id like to go for one that gives me more opportunity to meet girls. A few thoughts i had. so if anyone has any more ideas or can expand upon how these jobs would go with meeting girls. i have a shortened schoolday and i just chill with my buds so i feel i need to be out in public more to have more chances.

Life guard
Clothing Store in the mall or some other store in the mall.
Pizza Delivery
a popular subway
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i was a lifeguard the past summer and i had a great time getting to constantly meet new girls and all the sun made me very tan
 

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ya i was thinking lifeguard. you just have to find and get a job at the right place. at the y there is usually just old people in the pool =(

a movie theatre maybe duno how you could iniate conversations?

what do you guys think of like a clothing store in the mall? or another store in the mall. there is this clothing store i went to and the employees like help people to find the right clothes for them that looks like good conversation maybe if i somehow became an expert in women's clothing haha. but maybe any job in the mall as it is a giant cluster **** of people. i know i could probably do well at game stop but girls + video games probably = nono
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I worked in a movie theatre in high school. It was a great time. You don't get paid crap (which also means you don't really have to take crap from the boss either), but most everyone you work with is your age. You can hang out with these kids outside work and meet all sorts of new girls.

And in high school I noticed meeting girls from other high schools was exciting for them because they LOVED being able to talk to the kids at their school about their cool friend who goes to X school. It makes them feel cool to know they know kids at different schools.

If you are good at conversation the movie theatre is fun because people ask you all sorts of questions.

High school jobs are great so long as you don't take yourself or the job too seriously.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Forms said:
I worked in a movie theatre in high school. It was a great time. You don't get paid crap (which also means you don't really have to take crap from the boss either), but most everyone you work with is your age. You can hang out with these kids outside work and meet all sorts of new girls.

I had a friend that did nothing but work at a movie theater throughout highschool. He made so much money and worked more overtime then you can imagine. He must have been doing something really productive for them to keep letting him have that many hours though.

Just a reminder though a lot of jobs busiest times are on the weekends and holidays so you might have to make some sacrifices.
 

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yea, movie theatres are busiest on weekends and holidays and all that mess, but that's half the reason a high school kid would work there. He can't exactly go out and get a nine to five, you know?
 

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i just applied at a bowling alley... what do you guys think about that? i know for a fact that there are tons of girls in there when they have the glow bowling. they said I'd be starting at the snack bar, so it should be pretty good :)
 

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you might consider working at a skating rink if your town has one. I know ours has tons of hot teen girls working their. Though u really won't meet older female customers at one.
 
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