"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a good guide to abs

nvictor

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hello,
I want to bulk up but not gain huge muscles. I want lean cut muscles with great focus on abs. Like Brad Pitt in fight club [my favourite example]. But I merely have access to gym once in a week.

I want to work chest, shoulders, back, triceps, biceps, legs and abs [to be precise]

What do you recommend? Do you know a guide.
And what should I eat? [consider that I'm a student, I cook rarely, but I don't eat fast foods...]

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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howardalex

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I'm a student too - I'd reccomend a push/pull/legs split plus a day or 2 of cardio

food's easy - just eat clean, carbs in the morning and around workouts, protein for the rest of the day - chicken, steak, low fat cottage cheese, skimmed milk

get yourself a good pan and do a stir fry with a nice sauce every day

btw real growth is slow but sustainable - there's no need to do a dirty bulk, eat clean and high protein and you should gain
 

shaunuk

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You mean push-ups and legs in my room?
What about the abs?
Nah, by 'pull/pull/legs split' howardalex was referring to a three-day weight training split. Are you interested in starting weight training?

By the looks of it, you want a sixpack, which consists of 2 things: 1) having low body fat, 2) having big enough abs. Requirement 1 is the most important, but without number 2, you'll just look reasonably cut.

The best way to go about getting a sixpack is building overall body musculature, i.e. gaining muscle by weight training, and losing body fat. That way, when you reach a low body fat percentage, you'll actually having something to show underneath it :). If you wanna do that, we can give you advice :)

-shaun
 

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Start off on these to get you that "v" region.
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/HipFlexors/WtInclineLegRaise.html

These will get you the "6 pack" in no time.
http://www.exrx.net/WeightExercises/HipFlexors/WtDeclineSitup.html

Push your abs HARD once a week for 10-15 minutes,that will be more then enough. They aren't like biceps or pecs,short intense workouts will be more then enough.

Oh yeah for abs,tanning really helps.

These couldn't hurt
http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/ms-fit5.htm
I just started doing them a week ago. No results yet but I will keep doing them for a month or so and see if my waist slims down any.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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EFFORT

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I recommend you read the idiots guide to growth by warboss alex, then use the routine in there. From there the rest is getting your diet together (which is a lot) so post up a journal then post an honest days eating in there so we can help you get a diet together. Also what are your stats, weight, bf, height, maxs for big 3?
 

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why do you only have access to the gym once a week? most guys who have responded to you are assuming that you can find a way to get to the gym more than that... and all of us would highly recommend that you find a way to do so.
 

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yeah I meant with weights - dude get a gym membership and start deadlifting, squatting and benching - get the other exercises in yeah but those are most important

btw brad pitt ain't all that big, he's just quite cut - he just looks average size or less with clothes on
 
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