"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Hi guys!

I'm pretty sick, so I won't be able to ask this girl out this weekend, too bad.
But, since her IL is quite high, I just wanna give her a call just to say hello and maybe ask how was her day.
Simple stuff... and b4 anyone tell me not to call her all the time, this is gonna be the first time calling her, since I got her # recently...
The problem is... I can't think of a good excuse to give her a call... maybe because I don't know her that well, and I don't want to look like I'm hooked on her by calling and saying "yeah... I just wanted to say hi!".
So... any sugestions? :p
 

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Tell her you lost her number and were trying to dial it from memory to see if this was the right one...
 
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Originally posted by St0ryTeller
I don't know her that well, and I don't want to look like I'm hooked on her by calling and saying "yeah... I just wanted to say hi!".
So... any sugestions? :p
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Dude, chicks love it when guys just call them to say hi! Guys call each other with a purpose. Girls call each other and expect guys to call them just to say hi.

The main thing you should be thinking about is what excuses to make to hang up first. This is something that I always get stuck on and end up with them saying they must leave first. Those who hang up first have the power!
 
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Thx guys!
Excuses to hang up first are gonna be really easy. :)
Anyone has any other good excuses?
 
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Originally posted by St0ryTeller
Thx guys!
Excuses to hang up first are gonna be really easy. :)
Anyone has any other good excuses?
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Your excuse is that you're a man and that she's a woman and you want to bang her.

Although you don't have to tell her that, but then again, you don't NEED an "excuse" to call. You call because you want to.
 

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