"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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a good cf to get girls number?

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so i was talking with this chick on myspace (already wrote a thread about). it went perfectly. up until i had to get offline, and i asked her for her cell. she didn't have one. after that comment. i stopped talking to her. it's been like 3 days now, (so i dont seem needy) and i feel that it's time to ask for her home phone now. do you think this has potentiol?

"i almost feel kind of bad that you cant afford one. do you have anything i can ring you at?"

of course she didn't say she couldn't afford one. i am just playfully insulting her.. kind of.

oppinions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i went with it anyway this is what i said. exactly:

i almost feel bad that you cant afford one.

do you have anything i can ring you at?

like maybe a public phone booth you claimed?

<3

i thought the last line added a bit more humour. i did notice it seemed kind of snobbish, so i added the "<3" to establish i was only kidding.

im waiting for her to reply back
 

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I don't really favor the whole let me get your number deal. I like to get a girl's interests so high, that she can't resist getting my number. Of course if theres limited time, make sure she's giving good signals before even popping the phone. You want to make her feel like you're doing her a favor, not that she's doing you one.
 

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Dude, if the truth be told, and she doesn't have a cell phone then she is not worth getting to know..

but, of course, she does have a cell phone.... tell me what chick doesn't have one..
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hahahahahahahahaha

WOW... listen, first of all, if a girl REALLY wanted you, she would have given you her number before you even next (ofcourse this happens rarely)... but, once you asked for her cell, its not about even the number, your making a pass at you, and if her reply "yes" to you, she could have said "I dont have a cell, I only use my home phone number" i.e hinting for you to get her home number...

The Don Juan thing to do is right on the spot, after she says she doesnt have a cell phone , reply "Thats cool, how about I get your home number instead then" if she is young, you can always use the ****y/funny additions to that such as I'll make sure to not call late so that I dont wake up your parents :)

The point is, your busting game, so do it, the 3 day rule applys after you already had contact, and you dont want to seem like an AFC running to her back immedietly, hence you wait 3 days...

Conclusion, get a contact, and if she not giving you one, f.uck her... go for the next my space pic...
 
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