Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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A girls says to you: "I want a **** buddy"

DJ4Life

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I know this girl from school, there is nothing between us, we just have casual ordinary friendship

we have been talking on and off, and topics include anything from stupid topics to sex. basically i found out that she likes to talk openly about sex, either masturbation or anything that does with sex, but i also heard she talks about it to quite a lot of people too

she has been telling me about her sex experience with some male friends she had, and just recently she told me how she wants a new **** buddy

can i take that as a simple statement, or is she implying anything to me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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spider_007

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she is looking for attention, it's why SHE IS talking to everybody about it.

You can try it, but i'd put my money on; "she flakes"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta

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hck332 said:
get her drunk first.
no


get her high..

they're hornier when they just smoked
 
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