"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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A girl with boyfriend

giovannikast

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Hi
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I know a girl who has a boyfriend, I really like her and I dont know what to do, I want to seduce her. I need your advices, fellows djs.
Giovanni:D :D :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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am4591

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Do what you'd ordinarily do and ignore the fact that she has a boyfriend.
 

golf299

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forget it man. it WILL NOT be worth the stress. nothing good will come out of the situation. find a single girl, and have some respect for her current bf as well.
 

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Run away! It's not worth the time or the trouble. I wasted almost a year of my life chasing a girl with a boyfriend when I was in my Senior year of High School. Guess what, I never got her and my advances actually drove her away and made her hate me. Now she's probably married to that bastard lol.

Find a single girl, there are millions! And it's a lot less trouble.
 

flyjesta81

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hey bro, i am in the sam situation except she was the one after me and yes i fell for it, i banged her a few times and i even talk 2 her bf in fact we are going out tomorrow all of us! I think he kinda figures something is up between us, but the thing that keeps coming back is, she is asleep in his arms not mine at nite, so do what u want just dont take anything she says seriously! cuz u WILL get hurt!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nutmeg

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i agree, forget her. If she's taken, chasing after her is lame.
If she is willing to dump her bf for you, she'll be just as willing to dump you when the next guy comes along.

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I'm not a DJ, just a girl who knows a DJ when she sees one.
 

JohnJones

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Originally posted by Nutmeg
i agree, forget her. If she's taken, chasing after her is lame.
If she is willing to dump her bf for you, she'll be just as willing to dump you when the next guy comes along.

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I'm not a DJ, just a girl who knows a DJ when she sees one.

But if you get her hooked, she will probably tell you that it is different with you than with him and that people can change and grow: "Don't you trust me?"
 

Cremasta

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This is a sex only situation. I've tried to steal a 'taken' girl and it was more trouble than it was worth, in the end settled for shagging her.

Get inside her confidence. Make it absolutely apparent that you do not go after women with bf's (tell her you think they are just not worth the trouble - she will feel that is directed at her). She'll be a bit more comfortable because she'll think that you would never try to hit on her.

When she's comfortable and "trusts" you, you can take the flirting and innuendo a lot further than you would normally feel comfortable with. By the time she realises with her head that you actually are trying to get with her, you have already done a lot of groundwork and she will (at least emotionally) have thought about you in either a romantic or sexual manner depending on the mood you have taken.

How long this takes you will depend on the girl, how good a rapport you build with her and how hot she thinks you are. Experience has shown me that it has absolutely nothing to do with how much she "loves" her bf (though others may have different experience here). It could take days, weeks or even months.
 
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