I met this girl at my college. We started taking here/there and then proceed to talk on myspace and facebook, pretty random times. I found out that she has this boyfriend in another town. Mainly I would just use online to throw some negs at her. Anyways, she give her phone number and tells me she we should hang out sometime. So time passes (I don't call) and we talk some more online; but she still insists hanging out. So I give in, call her up and we had date (hung out) last night. We went to a movie and then went for a walk. Overall, the date went good. As soon as I got home she calls up; and asks me if I want to hang out today. What gives? I know she has a boyfriend? (but she has not told me, i just learned on my own) Should I pursue this girl or stay away.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
A girl with a boyfriend??
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