"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A girl with a bf.

Drainz

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alright, well i have this questions.. this girl i was talking to, was real flirty and whatnot.. and as we talked more, she seemed to be just as interested in me, and then i find out she has a bf. but heres the kicker, she told me that they were on ruff times, and he was her ex that she was giving another chance to..

now my question is, what should i do if im styll interested? should i continue to talk to her, and possibly chyll with her, even tho she has a bf? or should i juss cut her off and wait for her to finish this relationship? (which could lead to us not talking anymore, since i have no other way of contacting her unless im talking to her.. )

im not a homewrecker, but im kinda interested styll. (and could care less what the guy thinks.. lol.)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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she is proly hanging out with you so you can make a move on her and she can leave her BF for you. that is, if she is giving you flirting signals like you said.
 

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Dude keep hanging wif her then shel perfer u than her boyf wen dey hav a nuva fite
 

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Originally posted by chuchu
What did that guy do to her?
well, the guy is juss being more of a jerk than usual.. not paying enuf attention to her, and juss aggravating her more so. supposedly this is similar to how they broke up the first time, and she gave it another chance, most likely cuz she styll had feelings for him.

and yea.. i didnt kno if i should make a move.. i been busting on her enuf and teasing her, and its been really fun talking to her and whatnot, but wit the whole mans thing.. juss didnt kno how to move with this.

we used to work together, but now we dont, and this is when i started talking to her more.. so yea.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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