Man I'm taken this SAT prep course, I've been taking it for a week now and it ends this Thursday. Well there is this girl that I'm interested in(very very pretty), she goes to the school that the course is held and almost everytime someone who is taking summer school walks by they wave at her, girls and guys. Well at my school I have very few friends, and I'm not completely unsocial but a FAR FAR CRY from popular. THis girl seems to be popular. Man I haven't said one word to the girl all last week or today. Today I did notice her looking at me so I think she's interest but she doesn't kno how much of a looser I am at my other school, I mean I look like I should be pretty well known but I'm not. However I really wanna get this girl. Any suggestions on what I should do to try to get with her? I don't kno if she has a boyfriend or anything. What should I say, her name is Britney. Also she sits way on the other side of the room so I can't say anything to her during class. Can anybody give me some tips and advice. I have it again tommorrow morning at 10:00, I travel about 40 minutes to get to the school. IT last for 2 hours
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
A Girl that's out of my league.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
typical
Master Don Juan
You already think she's too good for you wrong way of thinking.
typical
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OK does she sit at the back of class or near the front ?? Are there any empty seats next to her at any time of the class ?? Are you always on time for class ??
I'm gonna be nice to you and give you a game plan which may or may not work, it should work but that depends on you.
If there are empty seats near where she sits, then your gonna arrive 10-15 Min's late for class , you will look casual when you walk through the door, hurried yet casual. Your gonna give the teacher some lame excuse as to why your late then go sit near that girl.
!0 bucks says everyone will gawk at you when your late (this is just guaranteeing attention) from there on in your gonna have to initiate conversation with her anyway you can, don't be scared, she's just a girl, and don't try too hard, cause you don't really know her.
She could be one of those "OMG like he's so cute" types you know those dumb airhead types, she may be cool but is she up to your standards ??
You could even make it a habit of being late then she might be curious to find out why, if shes really popular as you say then she's used to the normal studs hitting on her be different then those guys it might be refreshing for her.
Once you start talking or whatever keep it rolling you know the drill, then after class go grab something to eat lead her to a quiet place ........ I'll leave the rest to you
p.s dont give a damn if she has a man or not, its his job to be able to hold onto her its your job to steal her LOL
I'm gonna be nice to you and give you a game plan which may or may not work, it should work but that depends on you.
If there are empty seats near where she sits, then your gonna arrive 10-15 Min's late for class , you will look casual when you walk through the door, hurried yet casual. Your gonna give the teacher some lame excuse as to why your late then go sit near that girl.
!0 bucks says everyone will gawk at you when your late (this is just guaranteeing attention) from there on in your gonna have to initiate conversation with her anyway you can, don't be scared, she's just a girl, and don't try too hard, cause you don't really know her.
She could be one of those "OMG like he's so cute" types you know those dumb airhead types, she may be cool but is she up to your standards ??
You could even make it a habit of being late then she might be curious to find out why, if shes really popular as you say then she's used to the normal studs hitting on her be different then those guys it might be refreshing for her.
Once you start talking or whatever keep it rolling you know the drill, then after class go grab something to eat lead her to a quiet place ........ I'll leave the rest to you
p.s dont give a damn if she has a man or not, its his job to be able to hold onto her its your job to steal her LOL
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Well you two are in the same prep class. So ask her something about the class. "What did you think of suchandsuch problem?" "Did you figure out how to do suchandsuch on yesterday's worksheet?"dadmonson said:
Something else to keep in mind. If you approach her with the mindset that she is out of your league, she will be able to detect it through your body language and you won't do as well. She doesn't have to know that you aren't as popular as her, you get to make her think whatever you want about you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If you assume you are going to fail then you will. Just talk to her. Its not a big deal to try and figure out what to say - all you have to say is "hello." <smile>
She will most likely talk back - and just play off her.
She will most likely talk back - and just play off her.
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meet her
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whatever it is keep it flowing in conversation. Find a way to get near here and if there was a tough question you just went over or a hard assignment that was assigned for that night. Just this work gets annoying, did you get the answer to number 8. Oh yeah I got stuck how did you do that one. If she is really smart, be liek damn I need help in this class but I don't know anybody(even if you are aceing it and its easy) Or if she is not that smart and she didn't get one either or says blah blah blah was a hard question or hard assignment, be like yeah I thought so too, jeez I wish I had someone to study with but I don't know anybody, you wanna work on this together or something, I will call you up and we can work it out).
The key is to keep the conversation rolling naturally and don't make it sound so planned, just casual and like you don't care either way so you don't come of as being awkward. Then just find someway to lead the conversation into another oppurtunity to talk to her, preferably out of class. If you can just enough conversation going so that she knows your not a serial killer or have serious, serious social problems, then it should not be to hard to get her number.
I also liek the idea of showing up late to class liek the other guy mentioned, becuase it draws attention to yourself so she will notice you. Then if you sit next to her, you can be like
You: "oh hey what did I miss during the first 15 minutes when I was late"
Her: Oh we went over blah blah blah
You: Geez, I am glad I was late this class gets boring sometimes(just say something, you don't have to say this)
Her: (Doesn't really matter the response just play it by ear
You: Yeah I know, oh by the way I don't think I ever caught your name
Her: Britney
You: cool, I am "your name"
You: Pick one of these
"What school do you go to?"
"You have any friends in here"
"What do you think of this class"
What did you get on problem x"
Just keep the convo rolling and narrow in on a reason for you guys to meet up again or whatever. Then get her number It doesn't really matter to much of what you say as long as none of its awkward and you show that you are not crazy. Remember she is just a girl.
The key is to keep the conversation rolling naturally and don't make it sound so planned, just casual and like you don't care either way so you don't come of as being awkward. Then just find someway to lead the conversation into another oppurtunity to talk to her, preferably out of class. If you can just enough conversation going so that she knows your not a serial killer or have serious, serious social problems, then it should not be to hard to get her number.
I also liek the idea of showing up late to class liek the other guy mentioned, becuase it draws attention to yourself so she will notice you. Then if you sit next to her, you can be like
You: "oh hey what did I miss during the first 15 minutes when I was late"
Her: Oh we went over blah blah blah
You: Geez, I am glad I was late this class gets boring sometimes(just say something, you don't have to say this)
Her: (Doesn't really matter the response just play it by ear
You: Yeah I know, oh by the way I don't think I ever caught your name
Her: Britney
You: cool, I am "your name"
You: Pick one of these
"What school do you go to?"
"You have any friends in here"
"What do you think of this class"
What did you get on problem x"
Just keep the convo rolling and narrow in on a reason for you guys to meet up again or whatever. Then get her number It doesn't really matter to much of what you say as long as none of its awkward and you show that you are not crazy. Remember she is just a girl.
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She's only "out of your league" because you say she is. There are no leagues in dating.
Of course, if you're a total slob, and she's a fine, classy lady, that's different.
Of course, if you're a total slob, and she's a fine, classy lady, that's different.
Distant Light
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Co signtypical said:
Your not going to get her your inner game sucks so your going to be over analyzing and everything. You have this limiting belief about status in school about being popular and stuff. So your bound to fail, this is why you go infield and sarge that way when you see a girl you really want you wouldn't be doing stuff like this. So best bet is just to approach and to go outside and approach as many girls as possible.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
if yo think she is out of your league, then she becomes out of your league..
dont even try son, youll fail big time cause you still dont have the experience to deal with women of this particular beauty.
go fail and practice with other HBs as beautiful or more beautiful than she is for a month(at least 8 more girls) and then come back to hunt her once you are ready with the new skills you already know.
seducing women of particular beauty is not more difficult, it is just different. you still dont know how different it is or how to do it yet.
go and crash and burn with other HBs cause thats the only way youll be able to seduce this one.
dont even try son, youll fail big time cause you still dont have the experience to deal with women of this particular beauty.
go fail and practice with other HBs as beautiful or more beautiful than she is for a month(at least 8 more girls) and then come back to hunt her once you are ready with the new skills you already know.
seducing women of particular beauty is not more difficult, it is just different. you still dont know how different it is or how to do it yet.
go and crash and burn with other HBs cause thats the only way youll be able to seduce this one.
Leagues only pertain to women dating men, since physical beauty is their universal standard. With men, there are so many more dimensions to consider. Therefore, it is impossible to determine if she is out of your league or not.
Here's what you do:
1. Go on dates with other girls
2. Go on dates with this girl
3. Go on dates with other girls
Easy, right? I bet you're asking " but how?!". That's up to you to discover.
Here's what you do:
1. Go on dates with other girls
2. Go on dates with this girl
3. Go on dates with other girls
Easy, right? I bet you're asking " but how?!". That's up to you to discover.
BlackJackal
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Just say hi to her man. And talk about the class that you're both in. Forget about that whole "out of my league" menality man, she's know better than you. Talk to her and let her know whats up.dadmonson said: