"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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a girl.. still interested i wonder...?

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Hello!
I was hitting on this girl over MSN and asking her out over MSN. I didn't dare to speak with her at school so i spoke with her over MSN. This was in August. Then she said she had other things to do and such... she didn't seemed to like me. We said hello to eachothers in school back in august... But! She is 'Helloing' me still. Does that mean she is interested in me? I now got the guts to talk to her IRL :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I wonder... If I never talk say anything more then Hello in real life, can I marry her?

*stupid question, stupid answer*
 
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