A girl said this to me:

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

I was talking to this AFC girl and being a jerk, as usual, and had said "I like a girl with a nice body and a beautiful smiling face at the other end," when she suddenly says:

"its guys like you who make girls commit suicide."

now I had 2 reations -
1. what the fvck is she talking about haha
2. is it wrong to be a jerk all the time?

this girl knows I always act like a jerk and play games, but my question is, should guys be less mean around weaker girls?
should you help raise the really really low ones to a higher status, by being an occasional nice guy?

haha or is this weird chick just confused/clueless as usual

 

[j0n024]

hmm I dont know it seems to me like a sh1t test and nothing more, albeit a pretty big test nonetheless you should have countered with something like , "Ya and I bet you will say that Super models make girl's vomit." The only way people make other people commit suicide is if they egg them on all the time, what you do is speak your mind and your honest there is nothing wrong with that in my opinion.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

ohh damn haha I shoulda said somethin funny...I told her I was offended, then she said she had to go and left. lol

 

[Bible_Belt]

Never spend more than a moment pondering a woman's words. If you don't understand her right away, just forget about it. Words mean next to nothing anyway.

had said "I like a girl with a nice body and a beautiful smiling face at the other end," when she suddenly says:

"its guys like you who make girls commit suicide."

What she means is:

"I like you, which I am demonstrating with the action of talking to you, and getting emotional about something you say. I'm emotional, because I'm a teenage girl with zero self-esteem. Even though this is as hot as I'm ever going to look, I still think I'm a fat ugly whale. Make me feel otherwise, and I will have sex with you."

That's what I heard.

 

[Mr. Wolf]

YOU: I like a girl with a nice body and a beautiful smiling face at the other end

HER: its guys like you who make girls commit suicide

YOU: **thinking and looking at that other girl** You think she's going to commit suicide if I go talk to her?

YOU: **before she has a chance to respond** Nah.. I don't want anybody to kill themself over me. I'd rather stay with you and have fun.. **take her hand and take her somewhere, like to a bar, or the other end of room**

YOU: You have a nice body, do you have any tattoos?

 

[Randallpink83]

Wizzard alamar I hope you don't think being MEAN is a good thing... If you are just doing it for your own pleasure, whatever can't help you there. Plenty of other *******s out there that get some kind of weird pleasure from being jerks. But if you are being mean to attract girls.... ummm stop, you need to stop that.

being ****y is one thing. But maybe you are just taking it to far. I just try and be more confident and funny, its close to being ****y but without any negative sides...

Just be cool man... Don't be a jerk, Don't be a nice guy... Be cool...

 

[ready123]

what the hell is an AFC girl?

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

haha I'm not straight up mean all the time... but I've had very good results by being more of a playful jerk.

and you guys didn't read my first post:

should guys be less mean around weaker girls?

This doesn't state that I'm 100% or even 50% mean all the time.
How do you react to what insecure/weaker girls say?

 

[young_gun]

Who cares, you didn't do anything wrong, she's probably got some self-esteem issues or something. You're a man. You enjoy a fine bytch.

 

[MightyMate]

Maybe she was joking.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

nah she wasn't joking... but I feel like I shouldn't be limited by weaker girls to say what I would normally say. if they're hot weaker girls tho, I'd want to tone it down.

is it really true that you should never compliment a girl and only on rare occasions give a girl a compliment?

 

[Randallpink83]

is it really true that you should never compliment a girl and only on rare occasions give a girl a compliment?

nah you can compliment girls. Just have tact... Don't shower a girl with compliments... But if you feel like complimenting her on something, then do. If you don't feel like it then don't.... Its more about your attitude when you compliment.
If you compliment her to try and win her over, she will sense that and it will be bad. But if its very genuine "matter of factly" or something that impressed you, and you just compliment her and not care if she reacts or not, then I see nothing negative in that... that can't hurt you.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Ok.. now how should I use my jerkiness?

Basically I'm talking about negs.. and I actually like using them cause I get really good reactions and I blend my negs into C+F negs, so it's usually interesting.

 

[young_gun]

I don't even think about "negging" or "using C+F" anymore. I find when I do that I try too hard and usually end up p1ssing someone off. I think it should just come naturally that you would be a teasing, ball-busting kind of guy.

 

[dynamicallyidle]

How would I react to a girl like that?

I'd say, "wtf?" And wait for her response.

In all likelihood, I'd probably demote her in my book, big time. This is a girl with no social graces.

I was talking to this AFC girl and being a jerk, as usual, and had said "I like a girl with a nice body and a beautiful smiling face at the other end," when she suddenly says:

"its guys like you who make girls commit suicide."

now I had 2 reations -
1. what the fvck is she talking about haha
2. is it wrong to be a jerk all the time?

this girl knows I always act like a jerk and play games, but my question is, should guys be less mean around weaker girls?
should you help raise the really really low ones to a higher status, by being an occasional nice guy?

haha or is this weird chick just confused/clueless as usual