"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Girl Rejects Me On Myspace

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Michele said:
1000 posts mean nothing since I've been here since 2005.

Point of bringing up my post count?
I'm not asking this out of spite or in order to start a flame war......


But I have one question to ask you Michele, l'Arcangelo,

How is it that you have 1,250+ posts on this forum, but have only reached a reputation level of "is on a distinguished road." :confused:

I already see some new members here with only 20-somehing posts, but have already reached the level of "will become famous soon enough"

With over a thousand-something posts, you have written anything that would cause people to give you positive reputation?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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OTB said:
I'm not asking this out of spite or in order to start a flame war......


But I have one question to ask you Michele, l'Arcangelo,

How is it that you have 1,250+ posts on this forum, but have only reached a reputation level of "is on a distinguished road." :confused:

I already see some new members here with only 20-somehing posts, but have already reached the level of "will become famous soon enough"

With over a thousand-something posts, you have written anything that would cause people to give you positive reputation?
Many reasons.

I don't try to post "DJ Bible" worthy stuff. I could care less. There's a lot of people that come here and post what happened during their day, and get reputation for "trying", or for "encouragement". Or, they come here trying to give their opinion as if they are seeming like they are trying to get Bible worthy threads.

When I even bothered to writing things, it was way before the reputation level was even implemented.

I also get negative reps from sensitive idiots or from people that I disagree with.

Besides, almost all the times I do post, it becomes the final reply on the thread before it dies. All of the threads that I bother giving my well thought out input in dies before anyone cares to read it.

Now tell me this, Mr.-Soon-to-be-famous-250-posts, do you judge people's advice based on their rep, common sense, or what you agree with?
 

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dadmonson said:
LOL you obviously aren't, as you say, an "online geek" :rolleyes:
there's nothing wrong with being one.

you just show it and become completely unattractive to the opposite gender by seeming like a stereotypical nerd who gets mad at rejection.
 

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^ you retard, your thread backfired on you and now you attack some guy who never even mentioned u specifically in the first place.. youre so sad - why dont u go and weird out some more girls on myspace... thats what ur good at.

michele this comment is at dad
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Michele said:
stereotypical nerd who gets mad at rejection.
Nope I sure don't but you seem like the stereotypical nerd who thinks internet = real life.
 

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DamHE said:
^ you retard
LOL stop talking like you the sh*t because you are far from it. I find people who post about there mistakes on the internet a heck of a lot more brave than people such as you and I respect them a lot more. Insulting people with generic comments over the internet after they admitted a mistake is easy. You the sad one for thinking I give crap about what you say.
 

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1. You should have never replied: Not only did you make yourself seem like a loser but you just lowered your value in her eyes even more with your whining. You actually came out looking worse instead of better with your reply.

The DJ way is to move on and forget after rejection, but if you just had to answer (which it shows you couldn't resist she hurt your ego) you could have said

"just looking for new myspace friends, didn't mean nothing by it, latez"

the moment you replied with what you said you fell for her bs, you fell for her trap and she knew you were interested. Instead you should have sidestepped/ignored her bs and just leave cool. You fell for her S___ test hood line and sinker. Women are full of bs you can never show weakness, never let them hurt your ego, never let them trap with your their sh*t tests, they thrive on that stuff.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol this thread is hilarious. male drama. So priceless :D

lemme get my bag of popcorn.. this is awesome.
 

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Michele said:
So says the guy that's been here since 2004. Who has no game. Who cannot interact over the internet to a female. Where you have plenty of time to think of a decent reply. Who has no game, is too eager, is too desperate to even come up with a decent reply.

1000 posts mean nothing since I've been here since 2005.

You've been here since 2004, have a small amount of posts, but still fail at interacting with females... even on the internet.

Point of bringing up my post count?
Hahahaha you did exactly what you told him not to do! Over-analyse, break down, and reply with a tinge of bitterness!
 

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You should stop ripping into him, seriously, I've seen him give really good advice and as far as I know he is quite experienced. You are bashing the guy when he is likely getting laid as you send followup-emails to gals on Myspace then ask if you did the right thing because you need the affirmation. Leave Michele alone! All you care about is getting advice from him! He's a human!!!!! You're lucky he even replies to you, you, bastards!!! *sob sob* all you people want is more more more MORE MOOOOORE!!!! Leave him alone! *sob sob sob*
Haha i wasn't ripping into him, actually I thought he was right on the money.

I just found it ironic he did the exact thing he told the other guy not to.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wolf said:
You should stop ripping into him, seriously, I've seen him give really good advice and as far as I know he is quite experienced. You are bashing the guy when he is likely getting laid as you send followup-emails to gals on Myspace then ask if you did the right thing because you need the affirmation. Leave Michele alone! All you care about is getting advice from him! He's a human!!!!! You're lucky he even replies to you, you, bastards!!! *sob sob* all you people want is more more more MORE MOOOOORE!!!! Leave him alone! *sob sob sob*
lol... I bet you watched the video about 20 times to get the words exact!

Lust said:
Haha i wasn't ripping into him, actually I thought he was right on the money.

I just found it ironic he did the exact thing he told the other guy not to.
I know what you mean. But, I'm not hitting on the OP, he's not a girl, and this isn't myspace.

BTW, he was doing a parody. Britney Spears? You haven't watched that yet?! YouTube, stat.
 
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