"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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a girl is coming over soon. what now

moneyisking

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i had one of life's easiest hook up.

i was waiting in line for sandwich and this girl saw my pierced ear.

she negged about my ear piece and i gamed her back.

afterwards, she said she will come by my room to give me an earring.

i said ok and gave her my room number. this was the easiest time i had

having a girl over. btw, what would be the most DJ like thing to do here?

keep it cool and tell her that you're tired so you would like to hang out later

and get her number, or bring her in and try to fvck her? i am not really sure

about this incident. usually when girl comes into my place, i invite her in

first, and the nature and the "watching movie" takes on to something else,

but this time, it's different so help out here please
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't plan this, just go with your gut feeling as things unfold. :up:
 

mikeymic

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yes yes gut feeling but if it gets dull dissmiss her quickly tell her you hate to run but you gotta hang with your boy down the street lol. get her number and name if you missed that of course. good luck
 

mikeymic

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yes yes gut feeling but if it gets dull dissmiss her quickly tell her you hate to run but you gotta hang with your boy down the street lol. get her number and name if you missed that of course. good luck
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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