"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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A girl has to choose you for any of this **** to work

AlmostThere!

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And I think the choosing happens in the first 30 seconds a woman is in the presence of a maan. If she doesn't choose you, all the game you spit won't matter. If she does choose you, as long as you're not a blubbering idiot, you have a very good shot.

I believe it's 40% looks and 60% body language.

Women don't expect men to look like George Clooney. If you don't have any deformities, bad skin, and you dress well...you passed the looks test. Sure, dressing hip hop-ish will attract some women quicker or being built well...but your body language trumps that.

Eliminate or downplay any negative physical features you have and have the confident body language that whatever she says or does mean **** to you, and girls will be easier.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sometimes, women decide from persistance. Grind them down and win them over!
 

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AlmostThere! said:
And I think the choosing happens in the first 30 seconds a woman is in the presence of a maan. If she doesn't choose you, all the game you spit won't matter. If she does choose you, as long as you're not a blubbering idiot, you have a very good shot.

I believe it's 40% looks and 60% body language.

Women don't expect men to look like George Clooney. If you don't have any deformities, bad skin, and you dress well...you passed the looks test. Sure, dressing hip hop-ish will attract some women quicker or being built well...but your body language trumps that.

Eliminate or downplay any negative physical features you have and have the confident body language that whatever she says or does mean **** to you, and girls will be easier.
You're forgetting a couple little details here that she may not be able to see until she's had a convo with you: Personality, status, intelligence, depth, etc.

She may not 'choose' you at firs, but you can change her mind. A lot of girls have told m e that I 'grew' on them, and they didnt like me when they first met me. I have a habit of coming across the wrong way to people, and they wont like me at first, but then if I bond with them and have a conversation, they cant get over how cool I turned out to be. It almost works in my favor, because of the contrast between their first impression, and when they get to know me.

So, Im going to totally disagree here from my own experience. good first impressions are great and all, but they can be overcome.

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Sometimes, women decide from persistance. Grind them down and win them over!
This is very true, as well. a few naturals I know use this. Girls hate them when they meet them, but they wear them down into submission. Hell, quite a few girls have gotten their way with me this way!
 
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