"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A girl has to choose you for any of this **** to work

AlmostThere!

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And I think the choosing happens in the first 30 seconds a woman is in the presence of a maan. If she doesn't choose you, all the game you spit won't matter. If she does choose you, as long as you're not a blubbering idiot, you have a very good shot.

I believe it's 40% looks and 60% body language.

Women don't expect men to look like George Clooney. If you don't have any deformities, bad skin, and you dress well...you passed the looks test. Sure, dressing hip hop-ish will attract some women quicker or being built well...but your body language trumps that.

Eliminate or downplay any negative physical features you have and have the confident body language that whatever she says or does mean **** to you, and girls will be easier.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sometimes, women decide from persistance. Grind them down and win them over!
 

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AlmostThere! said:
And I think the choosing happens in the first 30 seconds a woman is in the presence of a maan. If she doesn't choose you, all the game you spit won't matter. If she does choose you, as long as you're not a blubbering idiot, you have a very good shot.

I believe it's 40% looks and 60% body language.

Women don't expect men to look like George Clooney. If you don't have any deformities, bad skin, and you dress well...you passed the looks test. Sure, dressing hip hop-ish will attract some women quicker or being built well...but your body language trumps that.

Eliminate or downplay any negative physical features you have and have the confident body language that whatever she says or does mean **** to you, and girls will be easier.
You're forgetting a couple little details here that she may not be able to see until she's had a convo with you: Personality, status, intelligence, depth, etc.

She may not 'choose' you at firs, but you can change her mind. A lot of girls have told m e that I 'grew' on them, and they didnt like me when they first met me. I have a habit of coming across the wrong way to people, and they wont like me at first, but then if I bond with them and have a conversation, they cant get over how cool I turned out to be. It almost works in my favor, because of the contrast between their first impression, and when they get to know me.

So, Im going to totally disagree here from my own experience. good first impressions are great and all, but they can be overcome.

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Sometimes, women decide from persistance. Grind them down and win them over!
This is very true, as well. a few naturals I know use this. Girls hate them when they meet them, but they wear them down into submission. Hell, quite a few girls have gotten their way with me this way!
 
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