background: Used to be friends for 2 years, did some sexual stuff together, but nothing serious. Haven't seen her in 3 years. I am leaving for the Army soon (in a different country), and want to say my goodbye to her.
So today I texted her (we talk every several months or so..). My exact text was: "Im leaving for the army in a month. I want to say goodbye before im gone. Call me if you want to chill".
She replied after 40 minutes: "Definitely, I would love to see you before you go."
I was wondering of how I should respond. I don't know if she's still with her boyfriend. Not planning on any sexual stuff, but who knows. its always up in the air with her. (From what I remember...I also changed a lot..so who knows). I don't know what my exact intentions are. But I would not like it to sound like her best friend, and re-enter the friendzone.
So what are you opinions on how I should approach her now? call her right away? set up something soon? or just text back?
P.S. were are both almost 18.
Thanks for the advice
Edit: Also, in order to get to each other's house..we must travel by the train for a bit. Should I travel over to her? or the other way around?
So today I texted her (we talk every several months or so..). My exact text was: "Im leaving for the army in a month. I want to say goodbye before im gone. Call me if you want to chill".
She replied after 40 minutes: "Definitely, I would love to see you before you go."
I was wondering of how I should respond. I don't know if she's still with her boyfriend. Not planning on any sexual stuff, but who knows. its always up in the air with her. (From what I remember...I also changed a lot..so who knows). I don't know what my exact intentions are. But I would not like it to sound like her best friend, and re-enter the friendzone.
So what are you opinions on how I should approach her now? call her right away? set up something soon? or just text back?
P.S. were are both almost 18.
Thanks for the advice
Edit: Also, in order to get to each other's house..we must travel by the train for a bit. Should I travel over to her? or the other way around?
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