A girl asks me "Tell me everything about such and such etc" What do I say to that?

[cannibustacap]

I went to Europe this summer and it was awesome. It was my senior class and we all got drunk checked out the environment, got more drunk, messed around here and there, visited lots of great sites, got more drunk etc etc.

Basically I don't have much to tell. True it was AWESOME and in my memories it was awesome, but I don't have anything that great to tell. I mean I could tell her how beautiful Italy was and Venice, but nothing more than what you can find in a Magazine. I don't have any stories that would appeal to anyone. Every day we did about the same stuff, toured the area, hanged out, had fun. Unfortunately there was no great event.. I mean there were some funny stories like my friend who almost pissed on a Hotel Manager (LOL) but you had to be there really. I almost considered telling girls about that because it was all I could think of.. .hehe. Unfortuantly, that story doesn't sound too funny to anyone but us. I mean, "el oh el" a guy was really drunk. You just have to know the people.

My point!:
Every girl that I talk to and bring up Europe asks me "Tell me EVERYTHING about the trip"..... me: shit.

Why am I asking the DJ forums this?::
as I said, I don't have anything that great to tell besides relay the experience.

What do you start telling these girls when they ask such a ****ing vague question.
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What I did say back to the girl.... "can't you ask something specific per country" in a ****y-funny way. I feel like not bringing up the Europe trip... but I think it serves as a good fact because it shows that you aren't an ordinary loser who stays home all the time.




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To go further, the girl really emphasized "TELL ME EVERYTHING about...." There is something about the way every girl has asked this that I feel unless I tell a 4 hour story by a camp fire, I couldn't live up to her expectations. What do the girls expect me to say when they has a question like this? Its like her asking: "Tell me the greatest thing ever!" ummm what?

What is some good C/F or anything to avoid and/or satisfy those questions?

 

[rgeere]

When a girl askes you that don't directly answer her. Say something that doesn't directly explain anything in an illusive mysterious way. If you do this the correct was she will respond with an interested look in her eye and will start asking you more personal questions, which you also should not directly answer.

Then try to get her to talking about herself. Don't talk to her for more than a few minutes and grab her phone number or other means of immediate contact information, then leave.

EDIT: 1000th, post.....

 

[cannibustacap]

Re: Re: A girl asks me "Tell me everything about such and such etc" What do I say to

Originally posted by rgeere
When a girl askes you that don't directly answer her. Say something that doesn't directly explain anything in an illusive mysterious way. If you do this the correct was she will respond with an interested look in her eye and start asking you more personal questions, which you also should not directly answer.

Then try to get her to talking about herself. Don't talk to her for more than a few minutes and grab her phone number or other means of immediate contact information.

So say something like "Take your greatest dream about Europe and the world, and stomp on it. That is how great Europe was"

However, the girl was giving me a haircut. She was really cool and I broke out of my DJ ways and just had a normal conversation with her and recommended she take a cruise around Europe through the mediteranian. The cruise will stop every day in a different exciting city. etc etc.

I thought to myself... "Okay, fùcking up with some C/F crap may equal bad haircut or a negative vibe. Bad thing. So I won't pursue this girl and just talk to her"

 

[rgeere]

Re: Re: Re: A girl asks me "Tell me everything about such and such etc" What do I say to

Originally posted by cannibustacap
"Take your greatest dream about Europe and the world, and stomp on it. That is how great Europe was"

You can be honest, but don't sound negitive. If you don't like Europe say it in a tactful way that isn't going to make you look pessimistic.

 

[cannibustacap]

Re: Re: Re: Re: A girl asks me "Tell me everything about such and such etc" What do I

Originally posted by rgeere
You can be honest, but don't sound negitive. If you don't like Europe say it in a tactful way that isn't going to make you look pessimistic.

I loved Europe. I know I wrote a lot of stuff in my original post, but basically what I was getting at was how to deal with such enthusiastic, personal, direct questions -- like:

Girl: "TELL ME EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT EUROPE LOL!!! YAY!!!"..........

Me: "........ it was just cool okay?"


EDIT: you sort of answered it by not giving a direct answer and focusing more on her. I'm going to think more about that.

What are some good ideas to reframe the situation into focusing on her?

 

[rgeere]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Re: A girl asks me "Tell me everything about such and such etc" What do I

Originally posted by cannibustacap


Girl: "TELL ME EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT EUROPE LOL!!! YAY!!!"..........

Me: "........ it was just cool okay?"

What are some good ideas to reframe the situation into focusing on her?

No No, don't say it like that. You have to be energetic and enthusiastic when you say it and with lots of good and positive emotional emphasis.

One thing to remember is to NOT DESCRIBE DETAILS unless they are ****y, sarcastic, obviously exagerated, and somewhat indirect.

And also, occasionally answer her questions with questions of your own.

Like for example, I would say....

Her: Tell me everything there is to know about Europe?
Me: What can I say? There are lots of things to see, new wonderful people to meet, and it was loads of fun.