Professor JAK
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Let me give you some background information before I go into the mess I got myself into. About a year and a half ago I stumbled upon this site and forum because I was an AFC nice guy at my breaking point. I was about to go to college and wanted a fresh start. So I took in as much as I could and started applying it, and it started working. I was able to pick up and bed women left and right in college.
Well a few weeks ago I met this wonderful chick (hb8)(lets call her target hb8 for simplicity) at work. At first I acted disinterested and just had casual conservation, from time to time I would throw in some c+f, but nothing strong. Well she started to flirt with me, like she came on really strong, kino was through the roof, and I kept my cool, still acting disinterested (she had a bf at the time and I'm not a home wrecker:kick: ). Then she broke up with her bf, and I saw my opportunity, so keeping my cool, I upped my kino and really hit it off with her one day at work. I felt like she would be a good LTR.
This is when things start getting interesting. She starts txting me and even gives me a nickname but at the same time other co workers keep telling me she is flirty with everyone so I keep my distance to gauge her interest level better.
Well one night, a bunch of co-workers got together to party, my luck her best friend was there, so I causally ask what the target hb8 thinks of me. The friend tells me that she (target hb8) "likes" me, which puts my confidence through the roof. So i keep drinking and enjoying myself when out of nowhere the friend starts flirting with me. I resist at first but hell the friend is a hb8 as well so I go for it. It was the easiest pick up ever, like the friend literally threw herself at me. It was a fun night to say the least.
Well in the morning, I see the target hb8 in the office and she gives me a look like I know what you did last night but instead of seeming mad, she seems amused by it. So now the reason I bring this up is I don't know what to do? I really feel like pursuing the target hb8 because I see potential for a LTR but did I ruin my chances by sleeping with her best friend? tell you the truth I don't even know if target hb8 knows I slept with her friend, but other co-workers def. told her about us making out.
Right now I'm planning to let it all simmer down because its summer and I'm off from college. I'm hoping 2 months will be long enough for target hb8 to forget the situation and hopefully I can start anew with her. I need advice, whats my best bet to seal the deal with her?
Any input is greatly appreciated! (even stuff that I did wrong )
Well a few weeks ago I met this wonderful chick (hb8)(lets call her target hb8 for simplicity) at work. At first I acted disinterested and just had casual conservation, from time to time I would throw in some c+f, but nothing strong. Well she started to flirt with me, like she came on really strong, kino was through the roof, and I kept my cool, still acting disinterested (she had a bf at the time and I'm not a home wrecker:kick: ). Then she broke up with her bf, and I saw my opportunity, so keeping my cool, I upped my kino and really hit it off with her one day at work. I felt like she would be a good LTR.
This is when things start getting interesting. She starts txting me and even gives me a nickname but at the same time other co workers keep telling me she is flirty with everyone so I keep my distance to gauge her interest level better.
Well one night, a bunch of co-workers got together to party, my luck her best friend was there, so I causally ask what the target hb8 thinks of me. The friend tells me that she (target hb8) "likes" me, which puts my confidence through the roof. So i keep drinking and enjoying myself when out of nowhere the friend starts flirting with me. I resist at first but hell the friend is a hb8 as well so I go for it. It was the easiest pick up ever, like the friend literally threw herself at me. It was a fun night to say the least.
Well in the morning, I see the target hb8 in the office and she gives me a look like I know what you did last night but instead of seeming mad, she seems amused by it. So now the reason I bring this up is I don't know what to do? I really feel like pursuing the target hb8 because I see potential for a LTR but did I ruin my chances by sleeping with her best friend? tell you the truth I don't even know if target hb8 knows I slept with her friend, but other co-workers def. told her about us making out.
Right now I'm planning to let it all simmer down because its summer and I'm off from college. I'm hoping 2 months will be long enough for target hb8 to forget the situation and hopefully I can start anew with her. I need advice, whats my best bet to seal the deal with her?
Any input is greatly appreciated! (even stuff that I did wrong
)