A Girl and her Advisors

[OamImrsNemo]

So I have not came across any information on this and if I have let me know where it is at.

But. Today I was hanging out with a girl I friend zoned to get into her social circle. I heard her Advising one of her girlfriends on a guy she was seeing. She was telling her that he was playing her and to dump him. That she did not need to be with him and would be happier dating around (slvtting around really).

So my question is when your gaming a girl whether it is just a fvck buddy short term thing or a long term relationship how do you protect yourself against an adviser like this. It seems it is out of your control? Any jealous Bvtch could do this?

Thanks

 

[SandHawk]

Simply, you don't. There is no way you can protect a girl from accessing her 'advisers' about a certain guy she is dating, unless you either kill her friends or isolate her so much you have no life either.

However, the best protection to it is to sweep her off her feet so badly, she'll ignore whatever her friends tell her because she is so madly in love with you. And that includes being prepared to walk away in case sh*t goes stale. And when you do meet her friends, sweep them off their feet so they'll love you beyond anything and think the two of you make an awesome couple. That is what being a DJ is all about: Play people in general to be the alpha, dominate the group and have everyone look up to you. When everyone loves you, all they can do is agree with whatever happens.

 

[runner83]

Yes, and even trying to protect her from her "advisers" would likely not go down well.

Chances are if you tried that, you'd end up labelled as "controlling" and not in a good way. SandHawk said the best way to handle it.

 

[Cinamon]

You have to win over her advisors for them not to have a negative impact on you. Also, its always worth telling the girl you are seeing that as much as her friends advice may seem valuable, it is clouded by their past experiences and she shouldnt bring that to the relationship, just as you wouldnt let advice from your friends dictate your relationship. Different people bring out different qualities in people.

 

[Ease]

She wont listen to their advice.

Their advice is like our advice here, new guys dont listen.

 

[The Experience]

Any jealous Bvtch could do this?

Yes, any Bvtch can do this, but it's up to the person receiving the message to understand that the person is jealous and therefore giving skewed advice. And it also depends on how close that Bvtch is, if it was her best friend she would tend to listen to her more.

 

[L B]

Pretty much what the others have said, work on 2 fronts. 1: Create so much interest in her that she won't listen to crap about you. 2: Impress her friends enough that they can't talk crap about you.

 

[vatoloco]

Pretty much what the others have said, work on 2 fronts. 1: Create so much interest in her that she won't listen to crap about you. 2: Impress her friends enough that they can't talk crap about you.

^^^^

This. Primarily the bold part.

 

[OamImrsNemo]

Thanks guys. You all pretty much hit it right on I feel.