"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A game to show you value money more than a girl - however hot she is....

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Heisenburger

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If you are out in a bar/club and you and your friend are suffering with a good ole dose of approach anxiety, ask him if he wants to play a game (I'm sure he will). Ask him to get out all his money and give it to you. Make him aware that he'll get it back of course!

Now point to the hottest girl in the bar and tell him to approach and talk to her. If he doesn't, you get to keep his money.

Guarantee he goes over and talks to her. Worked every time with my mates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Damn. Well that's a convo starter.

"Hey what's up? No, I'm not here to talk to you because I think you're hot or anything like that so on't get too ahead of yourself. I'm here because me friend took my money and won't give it back if I don't talk to you specifically." lol I ought to try this sometime.
 
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Yup, this is how I did my first cold approach back in the day. Except it was me who gave my friend my own money :whistle:
 
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