LookTowardsTheFuture
Don Juan
- Joined
- Sep 7, 2008
- Messages
- 11
- Reaction score
- 4
Something funny happens when you come full circle in your Don Juan journey. Of course it is a lifelong pursuit, as you are always refining the art, but there comes a point when you feel you are fully confidence with your abilities as a man to enjoy women and any sorts of human relationships.
As the journey circles around, it is funny to look back on the AFC perspectives you had on love and relationship. Before, you thought equality was of utmost importance. Treating a women fairly and properly, as you would treat your friends was the right thing you thought. After entering your Don Juan journey you began to pursue the Jerk role and abandon your AFC/Nice Guy syndrome. You treated women as second class to you. Coming full circle, you realize that treating women fairly and properly as you would treat your friends, is what a true Don Juan does.
Lesson #1: A Don Juan has love for all human kind, women, men, weak or strong.
Before as an AFC/Nice Guy you thought women had the same needs as us. They wanted to be loved, secure, and enjoys the pleasures that life had to offer. After you entered your Don Juan journey you quickly realized that women were an emotional black box, and not decipherable. All that was important was your intent as a man! "To VICTORY and GLORY!" you proclaim. "I shall SEX her!" you thrash! Because, inherently you are male, and to be male is to embrace your masculinity, thus sex any beautiful woman without guilt or remorse. Coming full circle, you realize that a woman is not quite different from a man. The key, you find through communication with many women and men, is that both sexes want the same thing, with a variety of different approaches to it.
Lesson #2: A Don Juan sees woman as a equal. As a half of him that he wants, but does not necessarily need in order to survive.
I just found it funny that when you come full circle, all that you ever wanted to be as a Don Juan was who you were essentially as a AFC/Nice Guy, but to have confidence in behaving that way, because those were the values and principles that you stood by.
Until next time DJs!
As the journey circles around, it is funny to look back on the AFC perspectives you had on love and relationship. Before, you thought equality was of utmost importance. Treating a women fairly and properly, as you would treat your friends was the right thing you thought. After entering your Don Juan journey you began to pursue the Jerk role and abandon your AFC/Nice Guy syndrome. You treated women as second class to you. Coming full circle, you realize that treating women fairly and properly as you would treat your friends, is what a true Don Juan does.
Lesson #1: A Don Juan has love for all human kind, women, men, weak or strong.
Before as an AFC/Nice Guy you thought women had the same needs as us. They wanted to be loved, secure, and enjoys the pleasures that life had to offer. After you entered your Don Juan journey you quickly realized that women were an emotional black box, and not decipherable. All that was important was your intent as a man! "To VICTORY and GLORY!" you proclaim. "I shall SEX her!" you thrash! Because, inherently you are male, and to be male is to embrace your masculinity, thus sex any beautiful woman without guilt or remorse. Coming full circle, you realize that a woman is not quite different from a man. The key, you find through communication with many women and men, is that both sexes want the same thing, with a variety of different approaches to it.
Lesson #2: A Don Juan sees woman as a equal. As a half of him that he wants, but does not necessarily need in order to survive.
I just found it funny that when you come full circle, all that you ever wanted to be as a Don Juan was who you were essentially as a AFC/Nice Guy, but to have confidence in behaving that way, because those were the values and principles that you stood by.
Until next time DJs!